well, i sorta got a problem here... relating to guy, well, i have this guy friend. we spend time like we;re a couple but we;re not...we always kiss n hug n stuff... hurm.we always spend time together. watch our favorite tv shows.. but he seems to like me but he likes other girl as well. he got so many girl friends but he said he loves me?? its very complicated... but now he ask me to stay away from him... the reason is that he doesnt want me to feel that im just being played.but u know i cant! i cant even say goodbye!! i love him n i wan to have him around... i dont know what to say. im just dissapointed and feel useless. im hopeless. please say sumthing nice to me...
2007-03-13 21:57:23 · 24 answers · asked by ctkm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did not say how old you are, but I am betting that there are many fellows out there, that would appreciate you for just being you.
You have a lot to offer someone. Just hang in there. You are wonderful and deserve better!
2007-03-13 22:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a book called "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt. See if you can get a copy.
Love hurts, and when it isn't returned, guys can steal your self respect. Hang on to your dignity - you're better than a guy whose got a string of girls in his tow.
The right guy will come along. Until then, look after yourself and make sure you feel good about yourself.
2007-03-14 05:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear not, my dear, he will get to missing you after a time and come back to hang out. Just sit back and let him run his trip and smile when he returns. And, if he doesn't, focus on the good times you have had with him and don't linger on the fact he has backed off for the time being. You both sound like very sweet people and it is unlikely that 2 sweet people will be able to stay apart. Good luck and hang in there!!
2007-03-14 05:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by roritr2005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Meaning you, Bombón. He knows or wants to know that he will ALWAYS be a player, so he wants you to know that he will be physically intimate with you, but with other women too. And he knows that you DO love him, so he already thinks he knows that he can get away with it. He is trying to set it up so he can be a player when he wants and without having to hurt you, because he already excused it. If you give too much, people like that take too much. There ARE men that would worship you and respect you and really really love you. You should know that you don´t HAVE to take that. Good luck. Use your own judgement and precautions. Love and Respect.
2007-03-14 05:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by nassim420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl
Complicated situation but maybe you should stay away from him for a while so he can realize how important you are to him. You know what they say upsense makes the heart grow founder!
2007-03-14 05:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by DEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully, this guy is a waste of space and a moron.
do not allow yourself to be treated like that. he is obviously hurting you. come on girl, don't be blinded by "love".
I'm sure you are a beautiful kind person. if he cant see this, ditch him!!!
best of luck sweetheart
2007-03-14 05:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say look for a better guy that is more devoted to you. Obviously this guy is not ready to settle down and have a serious relationship.
2007-03-14 05:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ozzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up girl, its very clear like the sun that he is playing and using you...unless if you continue and like to be treated that way. Give respect and love to yourself no one can do except you. There are more worth guy outhere.Open your eyes.
2007-03-14 05:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's guys like him that have trashed your self esteem. It's obvious that you don't have trouble finding someone to go out with so get a fresh start & find someone who will treat you like you need to be treated. Good luck!
2007-03-14 05:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by irmaynerds 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty Lady? You hand us this? and want something nice? Okay, something nice? Have a Nice Day! `Cause, allowing someone to do this? You won't have a nice Life. I do wish you Peace.
2007-03-14 05:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋