okay so heres the drama, about 3 months ago my friends andy and his long time girlfriend Krysta broke up on complicated circumstances (don't know details). andy lives on the same floor as his friend Arthur in their residence hall at college, (single rooms, very nice). so Krysta and andy have a complicated friendship, as anyone who has remained friends with an ex knows, she used to stay in the same room with him on weekends but was worried about unresolved feelings and stayed with Arthur (she had friends on the floor and enjoyed staying there) andy thought this weird but brushed it off as best he could. about 3 months later things settled down with around our circle of friends, people tried not to take sides as they were both very good friends. fast forward to mid-march. andy finds out from Krysta's text messages that she and Arthur have been dating and sleeping together for a month, and lying about it to everyone they know. (running out of room see additional details)
2007-03-13 20:15:14 · 3 answers · asked by Chirs potick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so they had been lying about this to everyones face, should I or my friends feel bad about cutting them off from all communications? is Arthur guilty of back stabbing andy? they claimed that andy wouldn't understand if they just told him. they asked for forgiveness but do we want these people in our lives?
2007-03-13 20:17:50 · update #1
Maybe they really just thought that it would hurt his feelings at the time and they obviously would have known yous were going to find out eventually so they probably just didnt want to lose their friendships and thought maybe you would feel better about it after some time to get over things
2007-03-13 20:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was dirty but that u guys choice personally i do away with drama in my life............but u guys are still young try as much as u can to forgive even if u decide not be friend anymore
2007-03-14 03:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2007-03-14 03:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋