It's really no different from going out on a regular date. You seem to be all concerned with the "safety" issues. If you don't feel safe, then why would you consider sleeping whith him? Try and hold off on that for a while and get to know him face to face first. If you both have a lot in common and good conversation, I'm sure you'll be ok. Just remember you only know his voice and his words. People can be a lot different in person, just first try to notice his mannerisms and how his body language is towards you and also how he treats others. Have a good time and just be yourself.
2007-03-13 22:28:22
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answered by ~♥~mama-to-be~♥~ 4
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Never done it but go somewhere public (obviously!) and make the first meeting light. Coffee shop or somewhere that you can get out of quite easily if it doesn't feel right. Don't feel pressured to stay out with him for ages, if it's your first meeting then getting the weird bit out of the way and then meet him again etc so you get used to one another. If you've spoken to him on the phone then he may be a genuine (seen a picture / talked via skype?)
The Internet is a place where people are a lot nicer, more communicative than people can sometimes be in real life so I wouldn't worry too much about that side of it!
:o) Let us know how you get on!
2007-03-13 22:30:41
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answered by urbanrt 3
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The first obvious thing is to meet in a very public place. As he doesn't know you, you can mingle with the public and take in your first impressions of him. If you like your instincts then go for it, but stay in the public eye on the first date. If you get a bad vibe from what you see, then turn around and head back home. You can always then send an apology for not meeting and eventually slow down contact to stop. Choice is yours. Good Luck though and be safe...
2007-03-13 22:31:35
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answered by N00B154 3
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Think you are way ahead of yourself here. Make sure the safety tips are in line, friend knows where you are, who you are with, preferably drops you off and meets the guy before leaving you alone with him, then if you take cold feet you can explain that some emergency has come up but you felt obliged to meet him and tell him face to face. If you stay do not go anywhere alone with him. Keep your taxi fare in your shoe and nothing of importance in you handbag, incase you have to make a quick get away. Anyone can say things to impress you over the internet. I realise that you do not want to hear this but PLEASE BE CAREFUL. If it goes well there is always another date. Listen to him very carefully face to face and watch for telltale signs of lies. Saying this I hope it goes well for you.
2007-03-13 22:41:16
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answered by ELIZABETH M 3
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I know you want the blind date to go well, but sleeping with somebody on the first date will only make you feel more nervous.
Differently go on the date but tell your self you are not going to sleep with him tonight, this will calm your nerves and should relax you enough to just enjoy the evening, I am sure he is not expecting you to put out on the first night, and any decent guy would respect you for this, and it helps you to get to know him before sex which can be a very emotional experience once you know each other better.
Good luck and be safe and above all enjoy yourself.
2007-03-13 22:35:54
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answered by Loader2000 4
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i'm sorry yet this would not sound spectacular to me. Your palnning on getting raped and elevating that youngster? yet you're a newborn. ok sweetie, right this is my tale and it is not that advantageous. As a newborn i become continuously afflicted via jerks, you felt that they'd get something. I finally become continuously observed via a flasher (do no longer question me to count huge style what number i encountered in my existence - to many to bear in mind). i become just about raped, yet become able to combat them off, a minimum of 5 cases (seperate incidents) and then my success I wasn't able to in good shape a million off. I walked away too ashamed to call the police or tell my mothers and dads so I referred to as a freind who got here and picked me up and borroed me her clothing. Thank completely I wasn't pregant yet I had very a good number of scares - on the interior the main. i want however relatively difficult cases, I just about did the unthinkable. Years later I met a spectacular guy (who later became my husband) I positioned him however alot - I had a tough time trusting him, I ahd a tough time enable him or the different guy even kiss me. How this guy positioned up with me or why i don't be attentive to. Butr using fact of his staying power and Love i'm nonetheless hear and a mom of three. and besides the reality that existence isn't suited i'm satisfied now. yet each so often i'm getting nightmares that take me returned to the previous. the final thank you to plot you existence is this, Get an guidance, throughout college you ought to meat somebody yet have a purpose on ending college, get married if/once you come across the spectacular guy ( the form of guy which you will build a kinfolk at the same time and enhance old at the same time), then have a newborn as quickly as you have that husband and job. you would be satisfied for the reason which you had a early existence, and now your gratifying you desires of having a kinfolk. Having babies isn't undemanding, as an grownup that's a tring time, that's a time that we the mothers and dads provide up all our capability and desires for our childrens. that's a time of self doubt, even though it is likewise the better portion of our lives. What i'm asserting is consintrate on being a newborn, having relaxing in college , getting to grasp new issues, having advantures. no longer on being raped and rasing babies. i might recommand you confer with you mom or somebody like a mom. LOL
2016-11-25 19:13:06
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answered by ? 4
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dont end up getting into bed with this person the first time you meet, it could be the only reason he is meeting you and for all you know you may not want to have sex. if he thinks that he will be getting sex it will put you in a position that will be difficult to get out of if you change your mind. be extremely careful and make it clear before you meet that you would like to get to know him first before you take it a step further. make sure that he isnt married or a serial killer
2007-03-13 22:31:21
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answered by CHRIS J 2
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Babes - i have been there. Only last week i met up with a guy off the net. we had talked, emailed and swapped pics for weeks and i thought i knew him so well. The i met him and he looked nothing like his pic and was nothing like i thought he was. he had already booked a hotel room for us without even consulting me and i only managed to get away because i bumped into someone i knew. it was so scary and all i can advise you is to meet up in public first and not promise him anything. Take care and good luck! x
2007-03-13 22:30:40
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answered by Anonymous
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first of all you shouldn't have such high expectations!!
ive met guys like this and conversation went great via emai and so on
but its so much different face to face
i see you are a very smart girl
go have loads of fun
he's probably more nervous than you are so be self confident
it can't go wrong
you will surely have a great time just don't expect too much for a first date ok?
be cool...
:P
2007-03-13 22:34:13
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answered by ADA 2
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Keep it neutral. Don't go overboard and waste your "virginity" just like that. You must believe that having friends and liking them doesn't mean you have to go bed with them. There is more to a friendship. So long you feel comfortable with him, talking about anything in the world, sharing experiences etc. You got so much to share not only the bed. So save the bed and be cool.
2007-03-13 22:29:11
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answered by Ashley 4
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