i have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years however it is now not like it was we r both busy she is in school am at work i feel she is seeing somebody and am happy for her because i do not feel the same way about her like i used to and i do not want to waste any more of her time but the problem is she does not want to admit it what can i do i feel it is just a waste of time for both of us to think that we can work out what do u think guys help me out
thanks in advance
2007-03-13 21:27:23 · 7 answers · asked by frank w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I want to suggest a new angle of looking at the issue. Instead of worrying if she has someone, just look at how you feel about her. if you don't love her, then let her go. What are you thinking???? Are you going to marry her and then find the RIGHT one and then cheat on her, divorce her, break her heart really bad? Trust me... it will be painful for you too.
The bottom line is, it doesn't matter if she is cheating. If you don't love her, be kind to her and let her go.
2007-03-13 21:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This usually is the case with long relationships, after sometimes the flame dies and both of you’ll or at least one doesn’t feel the same way they did before about the other. To summarize your case- - - You are assuming that she is having a relationship (because you have not stated any proof nor have you got anything solid to confront your girl friend!) so you can use that as the reason to break off with your girl friend!!! Sounds very lame to me!!!!!!
Why not just confront her and tell her that you don’t feel the same way about her like you used to??????? Maybe if she does have a relationship she wouldn’t take the break up really hard and if you have solid proof and you are ok with it then the deal is all fair, no blaming or calling names!
2007-03-13 21:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have to admit infidelity for you to break up with her. She probably isn't seeing someone else, but it doesn't matter anyway if you're not in love with her. If all you are doing is looking for a reason to blame her for the breakup, then you aren't being very mature or fair. Noone is to blame if you just fell out of love. Just let it go.
2007-03-13 21:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter if she is seeing someone or not. If you don't want to be with her just break it off and leave it alone for good.
2007-03-13 21:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by I know EVERYTHING! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about asking her out, and talk about it, tell her what u feel be honest to her. Maybe she will nderstand if she didint at least u were true to her and to yourself,...goodluck hope u b happy ,...
2007-03-13 21:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Thenaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you wish to move on with your life and that you can only be friends.
2007-03-13 21:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way ...unless you have a lie detector
2007-03-13 21:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋