i hate the stranger in my house. he used to be a brother but now hes more like a decaying plague. the more i see him i get sick of him. Hes this gangster used-to-be guy and he went in bars once and now hes still repeating his same mistakes. And he screwed up alot of ex girlfriends, all which i knew. Not to mention his wife which he dumped. He is one crazy m********
i cant stand his attitude.
it just came to my mind one day that i shouldnt talk or even pay attention to this guy anymore. He is a decaying plague and i dont trust him no more.
Recently back then, he started to boss me around for no reason. So i retaliated. I couldnt stand him, we got into a fight. He spit in my face. He made me apologize at him so badly. I wanted to be good brothers with him again BUT GUESS WHAT? HE SAID, GET LOST U ******* YOURE MY BROTHER? HAH!
until today, he is still living in the room beside mine. i cannot avoid him. and i am still a student. I wish he was dead!
2007-03-13 21:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh and he ****** his ex-wife and now he brought about another nuisance to the house. (my nephew) HE PUSHES HIM TO MY MOM AND EXPECTS HER TO TAKE CARE OF HIM. he doesnt even do anything about him. And i need my mom more than this stupid devil child does.
i may sound sadistic or what. Please help me.
recently he took my hair wax and just used it infront of me just because my other (A GOOD BROTHER) who was ok relationship with him was in inside the room with me. I couldnt take it, i took the wax and threw it out of the window shortly after he left the house.
I AM STILL A STUDENT!!!! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO!!!!
my whole family doesnt like what he is doing and ive talked to them one by one before how ******* up this guy is. he still doesnt change
i asked for forgiveness once( I RELEASED MY EGO NOT HIM THE BIGGER ONE ) and i am not going to do it twice and get rejected again.
2007-03-13 21:19:10 · update #1
hes supposed to move out but too bad he got a bad education and no job even when daddy gave him everything he needed when he was young.
2007-03-13 21:25:39 · update #2
If he's an adult, why do your parents allow him to stay in the house? Sounds like he needs to move out.
2007-03-13 21:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by chellek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have to say, it sounds like your life right now is pretty unpleasant. But you said you have an older brother who gets along with both you and your other brother - why not talk to him, ask him what to do. Tell him how angry and hurt you feel, and who knows, he just might step up and make a difference.
If you think that won't work, or if you try it and it doesn't, go to your school counsellor or a teacher that you like. Tell him/her the situation, and hopefully that will change your life for the better.
Good luck!!!!
2007-03-14 00:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by gwynny_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a stressful living arrangement. There is nothing you can do to change your brother. He sounds like he is well on his way to messing up his own life. Just try as hard as you can to stay away from him. Are you old enough to have a job? Try to find ways to stay busy - work on your education - and getting into college. This will be your ticket out. You can go to school somewhere and not have to worry about it. Let your mom worry about her deal with him. You can't change how she takes care of him and his kid. That's a mom's thing, ya know?
2007-03-14 00:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice a million) acquaintances - - even I actually have a similar problem in college and masjid. dont problem, human beings are starting to be like this. you'll discover sturdy acquaintances, i know i did. patience is the most important and Dua and Salah. - ignore the girls at masjid. do no longer hate them yet hate the sin they dedicate. 2) clothing - - purchase some, refer for your mom with kindness and practice her in spite of you've and pair the garments up. Like say, on monday i positioned in this (then get the pant and blouse and vest and undergarments, then carry the socks. pair those up, say for your mom that's for monday. and attempt this for on a on a daily basis foundation and every time a clean pant and blouse and undergarment to be picked. so your mom will understand you want some more beneficial clothing. bear in options BE form. do no longer even say 'uff'. 3) recognition - - follow Islam and the Sunnah for sake of Allah, exhilaration of Allah in undemanding words. see in the Sunnah, what's the behaviour Prophet Muhammad (saws) had at the same time as he replaced into in public, how did He (saws) behave and so on.. - do no longer seek for the exhilaration of others yet seek for Allah's exhilaration.
2016-12-01 23:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is that bad, and everyone in your family wants nothing to do with him, go to the cops and get a restraining order. If he's that f***ed up, then you'll be well rid of him.
2007-03-13 21:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by jacintamusiclover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time you earn some bucks and move out or else this is gonna affect not only u’re studies but your future as well as your whole life!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 21:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to another place and after that make a call to kids protection for your nephew maybe they will know what to do... I don't know what else you must do!!!??
2007-03-13 21:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dya - The white Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and pay attention to your studies. I know it sounds hard but something will change soon.
2007-03-13 21:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!! You need professional help. I'm not familiar with child care center stuff but someone please introduce this person to a crisis center.
2007-03-13 21:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jumpy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm so confused.
2007-03-13 21:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by KooKyKooK 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋