We have a project and all and we became a group...
We all agreed that will all be friends so that we'll all get along fine but came the hard part...
I've been nice to them for so long but they've played me a fool... they make promises but breaks them, they made me pay and promised to pay but still nothing, they set time and where to meet but I wait for long time and they say they're not coming or their gonna be really late...
I've trying to be nice to this guy's... Or better yet girl's... I've let things slip so many times i'm getting all worked up, stressed and angry...
What should i do? I've been through a lot i can take a beating but if it's my pride and dignity that's a different story...
I confronted them before and all i got was a louzy sorry and my reputation tarnished in front of my university coz i became the evil guy... What should I do? I can't take it anymore... they're still playing me a fool...
2007-03-13 21:30:28 · 5 answers · asked by Jean Paul 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what? I know how you feel because I have been there. One day I had to take a look at myself and what I find is. Sometimes people take advantage of us because we have placed them in a position where "we make them feel/think that we need them". Are you sending them that message? Are you telling/showing them that you need their love or friendship? You may need to ask yourself these questions. Work on the project and move on. Let it be all about the project not about friendship. After they have realized that you don't need them.........they'll start to treat you better and will even realize that you are one of the best persons or friends they'll ever know. They'll all come running back trust me..........
2007-03-13 22:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thk u should be award when make a friend...if they alw play u a fool , that means they didnt treat u as their friend...they just treat u as a foolish ppl, n tryin 2 play fool wif u ...1st thing u should do is dont trust a ppl so easily, when u findout they just using u, then u should not become friend wif them
2007-03-14 04:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people take niceness as a sign of weakness.Don't let them think that you are weak.
2007-03-14 05:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels! you smile once and you end up doing all the work!
learn how to say NO and when to say it, be clear about what you want and what you can\can't do, most of all be firm!
thats what i did in a nutshell.
good luck.
2007-03-14 04:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by HypNotikA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre not the fool. Take it from me a hard **** mther ******. Fix those arsholes with your bayonet. Fight them. They are soft pricks.
2007-03-14 04:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by James W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋