Say that u r a boy with a elder sister .........
1 of your best friend is going out with her ... How should u behave with him???
2007-03-13 20:44:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
continue your friendship if he is a decent guy whereas break it and warn your sister if he is good for nothing. You have the advantage of knowing him better since he is your best friend.
2007-03-13 20:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that a different relationship comes on board when your sister enters the picture. You can still be best friends w/ your friend but not at the expense of your sister. Let her make her own decisions regarding the relationship with her new beau; but don't stray too far in case some wrong comes into their relationship. Always be ready with a shoulder to cry on if need be- and lead her to the place where she can receive answers- the Holy Bible.
To sum it all up: Don't treat him any different; but don't lose the fact that your sister is in the picture as well.
2007-03-13 21:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by alivewithHim@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man thats bothering tell ur friend that u dont like it and u expect him to see ur sis the way he sees u,,
lets not feed lies here that situation is not the best and will bring changes to ur friendship,,even their relationship will wobble coz if the 3 of u meet then no one will be at ease its just not the best to date a friends sis or vice versa
2007-03-13 21:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is decent and they both like each other, then let them be. You don't have to change your behaviour towards him. If things work out he will be your bro-in-law. I know you sound protective about your sis but talk to your friend and find out what the situation is.
2007-03-13 22:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by AngelEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be best mates but tell him he has to understand she is your sister and you absolutely will not tolerate her being used, abused or let down if he wants to stay friends with you he has to be honest and up front with her
2007-03-13 21:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have said him to be away from my sister or if his character is good I would have asked my sis whether she loves him or If she saya yes I would have encourage her If his character is bad I would have request him to be away or say my parents to make understand my sis that not meet him and break my friendship with him.
2007-03-14 02:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Rumana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you. Your friendship has nothing to do with his love interest, which is probably temporary anyway. Be supportive of both when they break up, or get married, or whatever, but other than that, don't let it bug you. It really is no big deal.
2007-03-13 20:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me find out what friendship is that. Then if it is love, let us find how good he is or she is. Then bring it to the knowledge of our parents, for an early marriage. Or else, if it is flirting, call her advise the ill effects and ask her to refrain from this in her own interest.
2007-03-13 21:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Dexter,
Put yourself in the shoe of your friend for while.
I'am sure you will find a suitable answer.
Good Luck.
This is M. S. Mani.
2007-03-16 18:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal. he is a frieng 2 u and a gurlfriend to ur sis
2007-03-13 21:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋