Is 2 1/2 years a long time to still tell your EX you love her after you broke up with her?
My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago b/c i moved away for college and he wanted me to have fun and enjoy my college life. Now....he continues to text me and tell me he misses me, loves me etc. but refuses to have sex with me (says he has to be good). do you think he sees a future with me? im so confused b/c i still love him so much but just always act friendly with him. from these actions..if he is still saying this to
2007-03-13 20:48:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope he's wasting your time move on girlfriend there are way more guys out there besides one who had your heart!! REMEMBER past tense HAD MOVE ON!!!!
2007-03-13 20:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only broke up with you because you moved away for college, and not because you had any kind of relationship problems, and you both still love each other, maybe you should consider starting to date again. I don't think it's appropriate for him to tell you he loves you if you aren't dating, though--he's giving off mixed signals, and that's not fair to you.
What does he mean by having to be good? If he is attracted to you and isn't sleeping with anyone else, and would be willing to sleep with you in the future if you got back together, I don't think it should be a problem that he doesn't want to do it now.
2007-03-13 21:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Liz M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u had sex with him before? If u have and he doesnt want to then maybe he is really trying to do the right thing. Nothing is wrong with that. If u love him and he loves you try to make it work and see what happens.
2007-03-13 20:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody can foresee ur future even if fortune teller.he should be a good guy cos he didn't take advantage of u 4 sex.take time n patience as time can prove his sincerity on ur love towards him.good luck.
2007-03-13 21:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he loves you. He won't have sex with you for fear of messing it up. He just wants to do it right. You might want to give it a chance.
2007-03-13 20:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip!!!you still young and if he dun want sex then so be it!!go get sumone who willing to have sex with you.you worth much for him anyway.
2007-03-13 20:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by nanish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont have sex with you?wow that's rare i would keep an eye on him he may be a keeper
2007-03-13 20:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you meet somebody in college?
2007-03-13 20:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much you love him and let him know you can't live without him.
2007-03-13 20:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by talkative 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus love him if u wanna noe
2007-03-13 20:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ran C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋