I want to teach a frnd a lesson who has just used me and now when she have some thing to do she forgot me completely.
She calls me her best frnd it means I have given her that what a best frnd gives but I call her a selfish frnd bcoz she has just taken from me but I didnt get anything from her.
I want to teach her lesson. Just want to make her realise that she is wrong so plz tell me what to do.
2007-03-13 20:49:30 · 22 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have a selfish friend too, and I was always messaging her to do stuff, so I decided not to message her until she messaged me. That was nearly 3 weeks ago. Sometimes when you want to teach someone else something, the only one who comes to any realisations is yourself. So try something like that, and if, like my friend, yours doesn't reply, tell yourself that she clearly doesn't have as much invested in your friendship as you do, and she doesn't deserve a friend as lovely as you!
2007-03-13 20:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by jacintamusiclover 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I have a selfish friend too. I feel like she’s using me and always gets her way. It’s hard to confront her because she always knows exactly what to say and has the best comebacks. So the best thing to do is either tell her strait up or slowly give hints. For example:
Get her away from her other friends so she doesn’t feel so confident with out back up.
Tell her how you feel and what she is doing to make you feel this way.
If this too up front for you, when she is being selfish give another option and compromise or ask her why.
You could also try and make her feel bad innocently
2013-11-28 00:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by kiara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can really do is talk to her and explain how you feel. If you go in for the revenge idea - your friendship will be over for good.
Maybe she just doesn't realise how badly she had behaved. Some people live in their own wee bubble and don't consider others as they should.
Good Luck. XXX.
2007-03-13 20:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could go round to her house and c r a p on her front lawn as you sing the National Anthem through a loud hailer.
Or
You could kidnap her pet cat and dye its hair bright pink and shave the cats mid section with the words "You Smell" on it!
Two options there for you!
2007-03-13 21:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Onion 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
two wrong doesn't make a right. You won't be happy even if you teach her a lesson. Just learn from that and don't make friend like that
2007-03-13 20:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you no what id do nothing just ignore her , ive just realised that one of my so called friends has been using me , i dont answer the phone calls and txts any more shes been ringing me more times now than she did when were friends guess she realised i aint go mug on my forhead any more ,
she will wont you b 4 you wont her that will hurt her more.
2007-03-13 23:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to get back at her, its no good. your just wasting your time. if you dont like her anymore and don't want to consider her as a friend better ignore her... from that alone she will think and who knows , she will realized that she is not doing right thing for you.better leave her, with no harsh word to say because your conscience wouldn't bother you anymore.
2007-03-13 21:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell her the truth and if she doesn't like it, tough. A friend is a person who is willing to tell you when you're going wrong.
If someone supports someone in the wrong way they can call themselves whatever they like, but they are that person's enemy.
2007-03-13 20:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is selfish but you don't be like her . Just do nothing and be friend with her. She will realise it some day. Just pray to god that she will change her attitude one day.
2007-03-13 22:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Strife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. If you value your friendship, it is best to move on and forget about it.
2007-03-13 21:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Phillip 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋