My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 6 months after I left for college but have remained friends (he broke up with me b/c he couldn't handle the long distance and I am also seven years younger.) Its been 2 1/2 years and he continues to call me every two weeks or so, send me texts saying he misses me etc. He use to want to get sexual with me when I came to visit but now, for the first time ever..he said he has to be good and the sex is "weird" because we do it and then don't talk for awhile. tells me he loves me, misses me, but has to be good. What does this mean? he says doesn't love anyone else and texts me all the time saying he misses me etc. . do you think he wants me for the future and doesnt want to ruin it? does this show respect? what do you think? he changed his behavior after he thought he hurt me by being too busy to see me a couple time when i came home to visit. does he see me for the future
2007-03-13 20:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its time for both of you to move on...for both your sanity's...
2007-03-13 20:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not making any experience...i presumed you stated he broke up with you. if it is so why are you having intercourse with this guy. I mean do you have intercourse with all your ex boy acquaintances...wow what a large number you're putting your self up for. For his part...i think of he's feeling like what I only stated. He seems such as you have a friendship no longer a romance and as such should not be having intercourse yet his hormones are taking on and then afterwards he's no longer feeling authentic stable approximately it. long distance relationships infrequently artwork and you're making it extra problematical via distinctive function of the reality that there is such an age distinction. continuing to have intercourse with him will basically confuse the area extra for the two one among you. stable success!
2016-10-18 08:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he has to be good, that means he did not want to get sexual with you anymore, afraid of hurting you again and ruining your future if u 2 broke up again.
2007-03-13 21:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Zen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After someone breaks up,sex becomes awkward.He may be afraid of loving and losing you again.It may have broke his heart to be rejected by you or disappointed in himself for letting you go.If it seems awkward to be around each other,then it is time to move on.Alot of exes do not have sex after they break up.Personally it sounds like you want Friends with benefits,and he may realize that.Like I said he may still love you and afraid of loving you again.
2007-03-13 21:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably got 'religion' and thinks sex is weird and bad. Give him a miss, sounds like he's got wierd.
2007-03-13 21:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and sex are 2 separate things. it is easy to love without wanting sex. what you need to do is learn how to accept the love he is offering and not place rules on it.
2007-03-13 20:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...what is wrong with this guy... he doesn't want to get sexual with you??? Dump him and find someone else. Long Distance sucks.
2007-03-13 20:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Steve L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're ugly.
Next time maybe have a brown paper bag on your head. He might think twice.
TS
2007-03-13 20:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by The Stig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz hav a safe sex then
2007-03-13 20:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ran C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just asked this crap knock it off
2007-03-13 20:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋