Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I want to know How I would know if We are ready to Go farther.. (if you know what I mean..) I have Know him for like 4 yrs now and we have just dated twice and I really love him, Alot. We have been alone plenty of times and havent done nothing, but I'm getting to where I want him to be my first. And I dont know how I could really tell if I'm sure about it. I need some advice also to tell me how I could also know If he really cares enough for me to stay with me if he does be my first. He tells me that he wants to marry me and everything. I would do anything for him. But I need help knowing 1. how to tell if I'm ready or not. 2. How to tell if he will stick with me if he does get to be my first. 3. And how to tell if its real love or not, I'm so confused. ------(he just turned 18 and I am almost 16)

2007-03-13 13:42:03 · 10 answers · asked by marcy w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 13:41:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i loved the girl for 6 yrs and dated for over 3 yrs. i moved 3 hrs away b/c of a job but just for a year. it was so hard on her that i would leave her and i made a few mistakes. she eventually couldn't take it anymore. we broke-up 3 mo's ago. she seems to have moved-on b/c the pain was tough at the end. i dearly love the girl but i realize that we are different but not as different as she feels. i can't stop thinking about it and measure every girl to her standards. it is just so hard to move on without her although she seems ok with it. i would do anything for a long-term happiness with her but i'm not sure it would work and i guess it doesn't matter what i think now that she is moved-on. i am so sad and confused and miss her very much. what on earth should i do?

2007-03-13 13:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i get a girlfriend and i need tips on how i can ask a girl out on a date. there is girl in my class that i always star at her. then ilost a bet to one of my best friend from a half court shot and the bet was if i lost i would ask her out an did lose

2007-03-13 13:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have gone out with this guy twice. We get along great but we made out on the first date and if I wouldnt have stopped him we would have had sex on the second. Heres the thing I am 20 and a virgin. I dont want to lose my virginity to some guy I barely know. Should i talk to him and if he pressures me just leave? I need this to slow down or I think I need to end it. I dont want just a physical relationship.

2007-03-13 13:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have about 80 family members and my boyfriend has 10, should we split the wedding cost that my parents pay for our guests and his parents pay for his guests, or 50/;50

2007-03-13 13:38:48 · 33 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

Okay I'm an eigth grader, but I REALLY care about a guy at my school. There has been a lot of crap going aroung about he and I's friendship and how I liked him. There was recently a rumor that went around that I was trying to get him kicked off the baseball team. I apologised and told him that it was a rumor, but all he has said is that he hates me and never wants to talk to me again. I can't "get over" him and have tried for months. I don't know what to do now because I still really care about him.

2007-03-13 13:38:30 · 10 answers · asked by Katie Lanum 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 13:37:42 · 34 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

what was your experience? how much did it costt?

2007-03-13 13:36:16 · 6 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

We finally went out the two of us. We decided to be a couple, but he travels alot. He came home from a two week trip and broke up with me via email. He says he couldn't give me the relationship i want. well, a month and half later i end up talking to him. we are friends, but we hung out this past sunday which led to fooling around. He just left for a another trip and says he is going to take me out when he comes back. I asked should we try a relationship again, he says he doesnt know, bc he is gone so much, that it wouldn't be fair for me or him. Even though he says he likes me alot. I wanted at first a friend's with benefits but now i want more I think. I don't know he is gone right now, so i am not calling him. It's been two days and i haven't heard from him. Do you think he is relationship material?

2007-03-13 13:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 14 year old girl and a boy said that he wonts to eat me out what does that mean and what does it fell like?

2007-03-13 13:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to give this guy my number should i just give it to him or ask him if he has a girlfriend?

2007-03-13 13:35:04 · 19 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Singles & Dating

i have 3 girls to choose...i like to hang out with different girls all the time but i want a gf now

1.i went out with her she treats me like a king but she want a really serious relationship like if me and her r married already
she is puerto rican

2.she is white and crazy, she has blue eyes and blonde hair and i love girls like that..but it seems all she wants from me is sex

3.she is as my age..she is more mature she has beautiful face but she has alot of meat ...she is white

help me to choose plz

Thank You

David

2007-03-13 13:35:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well there's a guy, and my friends say leave him alone catie he's just trying to hurt you, but idk i dated him for a year and a half and know he has a new girlfriend and he says he loves her, and that he wants to marry her but he is only 16 , but he tells me he loves me 2 like as a friend way though, and that he no's that him and her are gonna break up one day and if where close than maybe would could have something. but idk i cry everynight trying to get him back into my life but i no in my heart that there is a 50% chance that he may come back to me, and a 50% chance that he wont. i just need help really badly i havent talked to him since last monday, but its just killing me not talking to him, he looks at me in the hallways and looks at me like he's sorry for doing this to me. but im confused what he wants from me.

2007-03-13 13:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by Catiet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 13:33:05 · 50 answers · asked by brandy! 1 in Singles & Dating

It feels greener but I think its lust. Of course its only been 4 months.

2007-03-13 13:33:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And then if they could have it, they don't want it anymore, or at least not as much as they thought. Why do we do that to ourselves??? What is that, I know I do it!!

2007-03-13 13:32:57 · 16 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. my boyfriend has been ignoring me alot lately.
and, hes been having ALOT of fun with my best friend.
and, i think he likes her.
cause i think he liked her a few years ago.
and hes only nice to her when im not around.
im kind of hurt and confused.
cause i really love him.
yes, i actually FEEL love.
but, now im not sure if its just me loving now.
and, im wondering, if my best friend is getting in the way.
what do i do and what should i expect?

2007-03-13 13:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It feels greener but I think its lust. Of course its only been 4 months.

2007-03-13 13:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friends grandma just passed away. I want to get them something but I don't know what. They gave up sweets for lent, so cake or cookies is out of the question. What should I get them?

2007-03-13 13:31:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to know How I would know if We are ready to Go farther.. (if you know what I mean..) I have Know him for like 4 yrs now and we have just dated twice and I really love him, Alot. We have been alone plenty of times and havent done nothing, but I'm getting to where I want him to be my first. And I dont know how I could really tell if I'm sure about it. I need some advice also to tell me how I could also know If he really cares enough for me to stay with me if he does be my first. He tells me that he wants to marry me and everything. I would do anything for him. But I need help knowing 1. how to tell if I'm ready or not. 2. How to tell if he will stick with me if he does get to be my first. 3. And how to tell if its real love or not, I'm so confused.

2007-03-13 13:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by marcy w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 13:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by blacksabbath200000 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've had this friend for a while. I'll call her friend 'A'. I have this other friend that I met at school at the beginning of the year. I'll call her friend 'B'. I hang out with friend 'A' a lot and also ride the bus to and from school with her. Friend 'B' one day wants to ride bikes with me. She's really nice and doesn't swear, unlike friend 'A' that swears and bosses me around. Friend 'A' gets jealous when I hang out with friend 'B' and end up not going to craft class like I usually do and play DDR with friend 'B' instead. Friend 'A' asked me if I was going to craft class and I replied, "I don't know." She turned and said, "Oh, right. You already ditched me anyways." I'm afraid this will get into a big jumbled up mess!!! Help!!!

2007-03-13 13:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by Kickin on the 88s 1 in Friends

When/if we hang out on thursday, I was thinking about not only impressing her by dressing up in nice clothes not going overboard with like dress pants or anything just a nice shirt and jeans and nice tennis shoes. I was thinking of getting her an energy drink, and maybe making her a cd of her favorite songs, am I going overboard to impress her, I want to show her that I like her but not really more than friends yet. Let me know anymore tips you may have to show her a good time, because most of the time I'm shy, and kind of boring but If and I really hope that she still wants to go, I want to make a lasting impression that she will be like this guy is fun to be around.

thanks

2007-03-13 13:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a son from a female, who is saying she is moving to texas with her boyfriend who is in the military, and she needs to have their son's birth certificate so she can give it to the people on the base...(her words) Im trying to figure out why it needs to be signed and why she would need to give it to anyone if she isnt married to this guy that is in the military. Does this make sense to anyone? It dosent to me. I think she's crazy.

2007-03-13 13:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 13:30:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my guy is not to prtective of me. he lets his best friends smack my butt! he laughs and when i stand up for myself he gets mad and tells me to "chill". it makes me mad! this othyer guy is sooo much better! he is not my guy but he stands up for me and never lets anyone hurt me or treat me bad. he is sooo great!!!!!! what should i do i love my guy but i dont feel safe with him and he doesnt seem to care to much for me.

2007-03-13 13:29:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I ask my husband to do or not do simple things, he agrees and then does it anyways. He "forgot."

These things range from really big to little. But it's the little things that keep mounting by the thousands.

Some examples...

I asked him not to wash my car with the wondow washer at the gas station because it scratches it all up pretty bad. He agrees and then will do it again and again. (Doesn't everybody know this scratches the car anyways?)

I ask him not to stack plastic cups when they are wet, they grow this hideous black mold in them. He agrees and does it anyways.

What is this?!?!? Any advice?

Thanks in advance!

2007-03-13 13:29:22 · 31 answers · asked by Me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and I jheard earlier today (for the first time) that today is steak and bj day. Blush, blush! We're not kids - we're both in our 30s - and becoming close. I really like him and I think its mutual. We haven't gotten beyond kissing yet. Is he trying to tell me something? Do most people know about this "holiday" - did he expect me to know? Oh well, a couple glasses of wine will help.

2007-03-13 13:28:09 · 1 answers · asked by risky girl 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i be less sensitive. i get sad and angry easily. i cry for everything. even if ppl play around with me i still take it seriously. well before i turn 13, i was different, but now since im 16 and stuff, i easily tend to get hurt. is it normal. im a very desperated person.

2007-03-13 13:27:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating