Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

This guy that I was quite taken with came to the store I work at (gamestop) about 3 times in a row and kept trying to get my attention by being "loud and playful". At first I thought it'd be better to ignore him since I have a boyfriend (and the worst part of that is, its a long-distance relationship, but I remain deeply loyal), but I almost can't get him off of my mind and I want to become friends with him. I think I like this guy alot because his physical features and personality remind me alot of my boyfriend, which is very weird to me. The last time I saw this guy, he was walking in the opposite direction that me and my mom were driving to get to Gamestop. By the time I got done with my business in the store (the only real reason I went there was to see if I would see him, and surprisingly enough, I did!) I just got back into the car, and I saw him "wandering" around the mini-mall area my Gamestop is in! I already know by now that we want to see each other, will he come back again?

2007-03-13 13:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by SSJGISG 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 13:03:58 · 8 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell this guy I like him, and would like to get to know him better? Before it's too late. He's a senior, and I'm a sophomore and time seems to be slipping away. Yes, for all who have read my other answers. This isn't the engaged guy, it's a guy I want to like to get my mind off of the engaged guy. I think he is starting to have feelings for me as well. I just need to know how to get the ball rolling before he graduates. Please help me!

2007-03-13 13:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by The Random Blonde 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well my boyfriend thinks I like the new guy because I told 1 person that I liked his eyes and thats all I ever said about him!!!! I havent even said 2 words to the guy, much less hit on him. well someone told him that I had a "huge crush" on him! and now he is mad at me and I told him the truth and he still wont talk to me!!!! HELP
Lizzie(Hannah)

2007-03-13 13:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by Lizzie(hannah) 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy, a year younger than me, who I really liked last year. He was wonderful. But because I'm a year older, he no longer go to the same school. I haven't talked to him since november, because we live in different areas too. My younger brother is on the same bus and never talks to him. He'll be coming to my school next year.
I swear he's the perfect guy for me. What should I do? He's never on msn, and hasn't answered his email since Nov. Don't know his phone number either, but I do know where he lives (no, I'm not a stalker, we were on the same bus)
Please help!!!!!!!

2007-03-13 13:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by Hawkgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

We were best friends before, now it seems like there is big distance between us, we don't fight, but we don't talk like we use to, we become more secretive although we never cheated on each other, it's been 7 years that we together, how do we start getting back to beingf close again?

2007-03-13 13:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by happydial 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please explain.

2007-03-13 13:01:40 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 13:01:36 · 2 answers · asked by Karleigh 2 in Singles & Dating

You know, a nice set of 'zooms.

2007-03-13 13:00:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like for example, I tell my wife that I appriciate her, and I appriciate how she raises our kids, or that I appriciate that she does housework while I'm at work, and tell her that I appriciate her cooking, but I also show it by giving her time away when from the kids when I get home.

Just interested guys to see how appricative you are of your wives.

2007-03-13 13:00:25 · 10 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was raised to be a well mannered, polite lady, so naturely I'm the type of person that if someone smiles I smile back. But what do you do with guys who are over persistent? I've tried to be nice. I've said I have a boyfriend (even if I didn't). Then they try that much more. So how do I get rid of them?

Is there a way to turn them down nicely were they wont ask me again?

Or should I be one of those real *itchy girls that guys can't stand?

2007-03-13 13:00:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after a couple months you decide you like him too and start going out with him. Then you find out that while he was pursuing you there was another girl he was hanging out with and having s e x with, would that bother you? Thanks!!!

2007-03-13 13:00:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your opinions please....just wonder what the average guy and lady has to say....

2007-03-13 13:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by CATWOMAN 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

so what do guys really look for in girls like ... i dont think they liike ditzy girls which is so not me. but like ... what do guys look forwhen they want to find a girl friends, seriously

and since guys dont really show a lot of emotion so how do you know when they are interested in you.

2007-03-13 12:59:46 · 2 answers · asked by rollin with the homies 2 in Singles & Dating

okay he works and all until 7.. and he stopes by sometimes and he spends his 2 free days with me ... but rarely ever the weekends... i dont know what to do or think... he plays yu gi oh with his friends like all the time. today, he got out of work at 7 and came to my house (he got here at 7 20) and he just left but didnt tell me where he was going or anything (its 7:53) even though like 10 minutes ago he said he would stay for a bit but he left.. he went out with his boys, i know it. what should i do? he has thursday and saturday off this week and he knows we wont be spending neither together... but yet he still leaves?? is he getting tired of me or is it just time for new people?

2007-03-13 12:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 4 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with a guy right before I left NYC, and he wanted me to stay but he didn't ask me to, so I left. Then, we kept in touch for a year and went out long-distance, but because of this initial misunderstanding, we both tried a lot but didn't really understand the other person really cared. Then, we split up in a terrible situation. For the past year, we have barely been speaking, but in the last week, we began to talk, and it seemed that we might get back together. I thought it was going well, but we had a rough discussion last Friday which I think was important, because we were finally able to understand what had gone wrong, but he wrote me last night and said, "I feel like I don't feel like talking like we used to. I feel different about our conversations. I used to like talking but I guess because of the gap in time and time passed things have changed, logically. Anyway, I duno what you want to do." I feel horrible, and I am unsure how or whether to respond. Any thoughts?

2007-03-13 12:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Singles & Dating

My first intro to my girlfriend was her leading me around in a head lock at a party. I met her a second time and she apologised and said she was drunk and did it for a bet with a girl who didn't believe that girls in the US learnt wrestling. We got talking and started going out. Everything was fine for a while. Then she started pinning me down during sex. That part I quite enjoyed. However, now she is using her wrestling skills to force me to accept her viewpoint in every case. Where we go, what shows we watch, what I wear, who does the housework, etc. If I disagree, it's an instant head lock, arm lock, crush between her thighs, smother, etc, until I am forced to agree with her. I still enjoy her dominant style of sex, but I am worried that she is controlling me in every aspect of our relationship. Should I get out of this before it's too late?

2007-03-13 12:56:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 30 and still a virgin and he is dating his first girlfriend (who is 31) and she is a virgin too. They want their first time to be special and he has been asking me for advice about how to do this. I don't know because my first time I was 14 and it was so rushed and clumsy and weird that I don't know what to tell him. I suggested candles but that was all I could come up with. Anybody know how to make that first time super special when you're an adult?

2007-03-13 12:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think when a girl gives you her number first? or if she asks you out? is this a turn on for u? explain =)

2007-03-13 12:56:08 · 5 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 12:55:29 · 1 answers · asked by Blossom 1 in Singles & Dating

Why or why not? Please explain.

2007-03-13 12:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this gurl was my bff and we had a fight the other day because she pushed me in my locker so i yelled at her. So then today she wonders y i i am igmoring her and i tell her ask one of my real freinds and now she stalks me every where i go. HELP!!

2007-03-13 12:55:02 · 3 answers · asked by blackshadowbabe33 1 in Friends

well there is this guy at skool he doesn't really talk to me but he has smiled or said hi a few times,so how would you get him to like you or at least talk to you a little more or even email you

2007-03-13 12:54:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am about to get married in about four months and me and my wife to be are in a heated battle about how many people should be in the wedding. I have three good friends that I want to stand up at the wedding while she only has two. She fears that people will think it will look strange if there is three on one side and two on the other. Also, my third friend will be playing a classical guitar when people are walking in so there shouldn't be anyone who walks alone. He will then stand up and join us in the line as soon as everyone has fell in line. She also believes that the pictures will turn out bad and doesn't want him in the formal pictures. I just don't want to upset my friends even though I am upsetting my future wife. PLEASE HELP. If anyone has advice or a good answer please help.

2007-03-13 12:54:31 · 13 answers · asked by jpenuel 2 in Weddings

2007-03-13 12:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by injectionandgloves 1 in Friends

Everybody can't love u. So how do u deal when u find out that someone hates u?? I go into a huge depression mood. And even when i hate that person back. Why do i do this and how do i train myself to not feel this way??

2007-03-13 12:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK well me and this guy were datin for 5 months then we broke up and we werent together for 3 months but yet we talked and tried workin everything out and then he asked me back and i said yes and tomorrow will be 1 month that we have been back together and we dont kiss or hold hands or anything like we used to...i dont know whats up with him ...my friends say just give it time cause maybe he wants to take it slow and not mess things up or that maybe hes waiting for me to make the first move to show that i actually want this realtionship...i mean i want to im just really shy and dont know what to do...anyone have any ideas why hes acting like that or what i should do?

2007-03-13 12:52:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend gets abuse off her parents mum and stepdad they shout and scream at her alot and they make her do everything they call her for everything her brother hits her just teh other day he jammed her arm with 2 forks she gets bullied at college and hit sometimes everything gives her abuse her ex boyfriend who raped her never leaves her alone and trys to get back with her all the time i am 400 miles away we have a long distance relationship going what can i do!!!!

2007-03-13 12:51:59 · 8 answers · asked by skizmo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mean wen a guy grabs your butt this dude did it to me A FREAKIN LOT

2007-03-13 12:51:59 · 1 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are very close when it comes to everything. We hold hands and he rubs my leg alot during classes. All the teachers but one don't care. Whenever it seems like he starts to hold my hand, that teacher comes over so I let go because we have gotten in school detention for it before. We are really close and talk every night. Well, today he wasn't in school and when he's not in school he always writes me an email or leaves a message on my cell phone. I got home to see that neither my phone or email had messages. I am so worried that something is wrong. How worried:
I jog a mile every day. Today I jogged and I jogged an extra 4 miles because I was too busy caught up in my thoughts.
Well anyways, do you think somethings wrong or is it just me being too over-protective and selfish?
Only serious answers PLEASE!
Thanks!


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2007-03-13 12:51:40 · 26 answers · asked by smilez 3 in Singles & Dating