okay he works and all until 7.. and he stopes by sometimes and he spends his 2 free days with me ... but rarely ever the weekends... i dont know what to do or think... he plays yu gi oh with his friends like all the time. today, he got out of work at 7 and came to my house (he got here at 7 20) and he just left but didnt tell me where he was going or anything (its 7:53) even though like 10 minutes ago he said he would stay for a bit but he left.. he went out with his boys, i know it. what should i do? he has thursday and saturday off this week and he knows we wont be spending neither together... but yet he still leaves?? is he getting tired of me or is it just time for new people?
2007-03-13 12:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is honey, is that you are available for him whenever he has 'time to spare' for you.
Make yourself LESS available. i.e. make plans with your girl friends, go see family - get OUT of the house and don't be sitting there waiting for him.
A week or two of this behaviour will have him BEGGING for you time. Promise!
From one who has been in your position before!
2007-03-13 13:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I beleive that you need to tell him. Let him be aware of this. That will at least "warn" him that you can't let that happen. And you want to see him sometimes. I think that if he doesn't get it, it's time for you to break up. You deserve better and more attention. I understand work is hard to schedule you and work, but his friends and Yu Gi Oh are like taking time away. I don't think that's right, at least ALL the time, like he apparantly does. I hope that helped some. Good luck. And remember, you deserve better than that. In my opinion.
2007-03-13 20:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel without being confrontational. i almost broke up with my boyfriend over trivial things and i think it may have severely damaged the relationship as i didnt go thorugh with it and i now realise i still want to be with him
if you love him then its worth talking to him about it and trying to get him to change. but if you dont then theres nothing really keeping you. i dont think hes getting tired of you but in all relationships once you get past the first few months, you get comfortable with eachother and dont always feel the need to be with eachother all the time.
2007-03-14 03:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh i know guys like this, i used to date one, actually i dated him off and on for 4 years. and it never got better. if you devote your time to him and he devotes all his free time to his friends, them may be you need to do what i did and make the decision of wether he could be like that forever and never change or take the chance of meeting someone better that will spend all his time with you.
2007-03-13 20:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by robinsondancer14 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop making yourself available to him... it seems like his doesn't want to make any effort to spend some time with you... hang out with your friends and see what happens
2007-03-13 20:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by lala15 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Time to break-up and find a better b/f.
2007-03-13 20:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋