Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

Hi, so first off I'm in 8th grade, and I'm 14. There is a boy, named Mike, who I really like. He knows I like him, which he was NOT supposed to find out, but he did. I talk to him, and he always jokes around with me, and one time when we had to pick partners of the opposite gender, he honestly screamed my name out (excitedly) and told me I was his partner. I know he always stares at me at lunch and during class, and sometimes "catch" him. We both recently found out we were accepted to the same highschool, and both plan on going. He asked me excitedly if I was accepted, I said "Yes, did you?'' but then he said "No, just kidding. So you're going, right?" and i said "Yes" and he said "good, see ya!" and he blushes when I talk to him. If you could just "translate" what the hel l this means, or what you think, I would really appreciate it. And could you add what I do????? Thank you SO much!

2007-03-13 12:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best guyfreinds I have been crushing on told my brother that I was crushing on him, what should I do??? I'm scared!

2007-03-13 12:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Singles & Dating

My bo has a gambling problem and low income. I am on SSI and am finding myself increasingly payng bills for him. I love him but I am feeling irritated because he has never helped me with my bills. I gave him $600 check last month(feb 1st) + payed all the utilities and didn't even get flowers on my birthday (feb 5th). I can't decide if I am being kind or stupid. I cannot pay down my credit or see the dentist. If I try to talk to him he just gets mad and tells me to go back to my ex husband. Help!!!

2007-03-13 12:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has lied to me and I don't know if I can trust him. We have been married for 6 months now and he is in the Army. We were seeing eachother on and off for a year and he kept playing games with my head and sleeping with other woman. The other day I was looking at our cell phone bills and found out that he had been talking to his ex-girlfriend from the time he was stationed in California until the time I came here. I felt horrible, he lied to me. When I confronted him about it, at first he lied and then he told the truth. I told him that I have had trust issues and he told me that he has changed and that he loves me, but after that I don't know. HELP!

2007-03-13 12:48:41 · 16 answers · asked by I know how you feel... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I am in this class with a boy. A boy I think is cute. This is what he does:
*He hangs out with me a lot more.
*he tries to get my attention and make me laugh
*he told my friend that he wants a girlfriend
*He always sits near me (not always though
*He asked me the other day how I was feeling aftter I was sick
OK THOSE WERE THE GOOD THINGS
Here are the bad things:

He talks to other girls. (but not as much.)
He doesn't always talk to me (but he does a lot)
On AIM he doesn't answer as fast as he used to.


Is this love or he just friendly?
Does he love me?
IF he does what should I do?
IF he doesn't what should I improve?

2007-03-13 12:48:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've kinda been snapping at each other all day, and he's out drinking a little and hanging out at the mall on his day off, and I'm at work...He says I'm bi*ching when I'm not, and I think he's not doing enough for us because our schedules suck...so, any light, hot texts that I could send to get his mind moving in another direction would be greatly appreciated! Oh yeah, and no invitations for tonight because it's that time of the month...thanks!!

2007-03-13 12:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 weeks and today he said I love you. Me myself think it's a little to earlly to be saying I love you.An my friend told me that her last boyfriend told her he loved her after 3 weeks of dating and once they had sex he dumped her. How do know if the same thing is going to happen to me.

2007-03-13 12:47:30 · 7 answers · asked by mz.atl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I think that is because I am very shy and quiet. I live in a small town also. I am just wondering if I will become more outgoing once I get into High School so when I do get a boyfriend I can act myself around him. I am just scared that I will never become outgoing and I wont get a boyfriend or a husband. But whenever I am around my friends I am NOT shy or quiet.

2007-03-13 12:46:56 · 11 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

im a 22 yr old male who just started my office admin job this monday, the secretary is a married 40 yr old with 2 kids both daughters aged 21, and 19
Today she unzipped me trousers and took my length in her mouth, then afterwards i asked her what her daughters names are, it turns out her oldest is my new girlfriend!!! what shud i do???

2007-03-13 12:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by villa_mad_lad 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so there is a really imprortant secret that i know involves me that these two guys are keeping from me and they said the only way they would tell me is if i kissed one of them, and im not sure what will happen if i agree to it, everyone i ask is giving me differrnet advice and i need quick advice now. Plz help me!

2007-03-13 12:46:14 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

so this guy i like
i sent him a text message b/c i haven't been in school the last coupld days b/c i have strept and the flu
well he never wrote back to the text and now he's online and isn't even talking
so i put up a away message b/c i don't feel well enough to really talk anyways
but what do you think all of this means?

2007-03-13 12:45:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..how can i tell if a boy likes me?

2007-03-13 12:45:07 · 2 answers · asked by ana3 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the thing- I know my husband for 6 years and he has this one favourite band called "They might be giants". He has remained loyal to this band and listens to same songs a lot. I think of myself as a reasonable and caring person, but the sound of the singer's voice really annoys me as it sounds very 'moany' if you know what I mean. There are 1-2 songs that I like, but every time he puts this music on it gets a bad reaction from me. I know it's not nice, but it's like the same thing over and over again. Is that bad to admit it to him? He usually gets very defensive.

2007-03-13 12:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there are like 7 guys that want to get with me including my ex boyfriend but the other guys are like so cool with me and the enjoy talking to me... but i don't know what to do?? i need help... they are like 17- 19 years old......
please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-13 12:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Singles & Dating

What would be the best way to ask a girl out, thats not to gushy and no to stupid. Should I just ask her in person, a note, etc?

2007-03-13 12:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 64 years old and my wife is 63 years old. We met each other in college and we decided to date each other. She loves me so much. I'm not in love with her. We have been together for at least 43+ years. I have children with her and I started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I wouldn't worry about child support since our children are 18+ and independant. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I'm only using her for sex. The only difference between a good marriage and my marriage is that I don't love her and she loves me very much and in normal marriage, both peeople love each other very much. I am really loyal and faithful to her. I never been with any other woman except her. I never cheated on her. I've been a good husband to her. Isn't that is what is important? her happiness? I like her as a friend. I treat her very well and treat her with love though. I'm not in love. Is that wrong?

2007-03-13 12:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im just curious and i wanna know for future notice. im too young right now but i d like to know just in case. I wanna know what positions what language and emotion, what kind of touching, and kissing and stuff like that

2007-03-13 12:43:55 · 4 answers · asked by yaya 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 64 years old and my wife is 63 years old. We met each other in college and we decided to date each other. She loves me so much. I'm not in love with her. We have been together for at least 43+ years. I have children with her and I started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I wouldn't worry about child support since our children are 18+ and independant. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I'm only using her for sex. The only difference between a good marriage and my marriage is that I don't love her and she loves me very much and in normal marriage, both peeople love each other very much. I am really loyal and faithful to her. I never been with any other woman except her. I never cheated on her. I've been a good husband to her. Isn't that is what is important? her happiness? I like her as a friend. I treat her very well and treat her with love though. I'm not in love. Is that wrong?

2007-03-13 12:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so you have a crush on a guy. You suspect he likes you too but he doesn't show it and if anything he avoids you. Do you try to do things to get him to react, like try to make him jealous, or get his attention some other way?

2007-03-13 12:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do, because every time i talk to my boyfriend i start to start talking fast and then like mess my words up and like start to shake. HELP! =0

2007-03-13 12:42:58 · 7 answers · asked by ana3 1 in Singles & Dating

(everyone older than 18, obviously!)

2007-03-13 12:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 12:42:19 · 33 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Family

smelling body spray or perfume. i really don't want to spend alot of money. so body spray would be the best.
please tell me the name and where it's found. thanks so much!

2007-03-13 12:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

They dated eight years ago when they were freshman in college. He lost his virginity to her/ They emailed from time to time, but didn't have a strong friendship. I feel uncomfortable with her emails because she tells him how much she cares for him. She begs him for pictures and his current phone number. Her letters always end with LOVE. I've told my boyfriend this makes me feel jealous and upset, yet he continues to write to her. He doesn't write anything flirtatious back, yet I don't the needy tone she uses in her emails. She told him she doesn't want him to stop talking to her even if his girlfriend disapproves because she cares about him so much. First off, she is married and I don't know if her husband is aware of her emails. She never mentions her relationship with her husband.
I've told my boyfriend to stop talking to her, but he doesn't. Am I being possessive? She I write to her and tell her to stop even though I'm a stranger? Should I alert her husband?

2007-03-13 12:41:15 · 19 answers · asked by delirium cornucopia 1 in Singles & Dating

theirs this girl katie at school. she rides my bus, and walks home the same way i do she lives right across the street from me and i really like her, but shes kinda of a goody good and i sware and hang out with other people that sware. wat should i do?

2007-03-13 12:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by Spencer 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this cud be long so (deep breath). i kissed this girl at my mates party we got on well she made me laugh and smile.think we cud have a great time together.but i did this when i was on a break from my gf or xgf now, then my mate phoned me up the other day saying there was a few girl that want my digits(my number) including the girl i liked but my xgf keep getting in touch and sending insulting emails to me and txts and not sure what to do we didnt end on the best of terms,she wanted to be friends and i cudnt handle it at the time then she heard about some of my prblms i have had and wanted to know them then i told her to get lost (but not using them words) but i said sorry and just wanted to move on but she will not leave me alone she just goes on (like i am now) like ''my new bf is better than u will eva b " (wooptdo i culdnt give a $hit)

(sigh)so what i want to know is how do i get rid of the stalker fast
coz i do like this girl but cant get with her wen she is about

2007-03-13 12:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 12:40:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok get im the mind of a 14 yr old guy and what do the like im girls besides ur butt and that stuff

2007-03-13 12:40:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres' this girl (im a freshman in high school) and theres this girl ive been wantin to ask out since i first saw her, but we went to different schools, so i didnt know her that well.

2007-03-13 12:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See, this friend i have has liked this guy forever. She recently found out i liked him, so she asked him out. He said no. And later he calls me and says, he said no cause he liked me. I told him i like him too but i couldnt do that to my friend. One cause she's my friend, and two because i'm afraid of her! Yes, i said it i am afraid of her. She's twice my size and she could totally beat me up! What should i do?!

2007-03-13 12:39:43 · 9 answers · asked by Yusaski Omhia 1 in Friends