so this guy i like
i sent him a text message b/c i haven't been in school the last coupld days b/c i have strept and the flu
well he never wrote back to the text and now he's online and isn't even talking
so i put up a away message b/c i don't feel well enough to really talk anyways
but what do you think all of this means?
2007-03-13 12:45:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that happened to me, too
2007-03-13 12:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just busy! it's a good thing u put an "away" sign what you can do though is, that u can now take off the away sign and act as if u weren't really on the computer and act as if u just got there and say "O Hi!! did u get my text?? What happened at school? did i miss much" and see what he says. If he asks u how u r feeling and tells u like o yeah i was soo busy and i was completing this report" or whatever, then, that's a good sign, if he just says "o yeah i have been busy", then, forget it! See if it works!
take care and get well soon!!! Hope u hear what u want to!
2007-03-13 19:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm correct it seems you two hardly know each other that well. If such is the case, it is best to have a ( Wait & See Approach ) with him. Secondly if this action is a ( Red Flag ) call it a day and move on as it doesn't make sense sticking around and getting hurt emotionally.
I know that it is easier said and done, but that is a decision you will have to make depending on the out come.
2007-03-13 19:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say....Its useually a whole lot less stressful just to come out and say how you really feel....like hey i really like you and was thinkin maybe we could hook up sometime but, ive noticed that you dont seem interested was there anything i done wrong? or somthing like that ,guys are dense most of the time ...you gotta stick to the basics lol!! but, this way you kno that you did'nt beat around the bush , and its in his hands to let you know somthing.....
2007-03-13 19:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me what you have wrote sounds like he is ignoring you for some reason.But us girls never know what guys are thinking, so just try to talk to him and if not maybe ignore him for awhile and he might start to call you.......instead of you going to him.
2007-03-13 19:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't talkers like girls are. so what's the problem , you don't feel like talking and he doesn't. don't try to rope every guy you meet into a romance. let it blossom, he may feel like talking in a day or 2, I don't feel like talking most of the time either, but most know I am just that way and it doesn't bother them.
2007-03-13 20:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 he might not be able to text back and 2 he might not even be at the comp even though it is up doesn't mean he is in front of it.
2007-03-13 19:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didn't get the message
that happens to my cell phone sometimes...who knows why
talk to him on your instant messenger, and if he doesn't reply, it either means he's not there to answer, or he's just ignoring you
2007-03-13 19:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not giving you the attention you deserve you dont need him
2007-03-13 19:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by johnnabattles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋