I am 64 years old and my wife is 63 years old. We met each other in college and we decided to date each other. She loves me so much. I'm not in love with her. We have been together for at least 43+ years. I have children with her and I started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I wouldn't worry about child support since our children are 18+ and independant. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I'm only using her for sex. The only difference between a good marriage and my marriage is that I don't love her and she loves me very much and in normal marriage, both peeople love each other very much. I am really loyal and faithful to her. I never been with any other woman except her. I never cheated on her. I've been a good husband to her. Isn't that is what is important? her happiness? I like her as a friend. I treat her very well and treat her with love though. I'm not in love. Is that wrong?
2007-03-13 12:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes it is wrong. How can you do that to her? how can you be a good husband if you are only using her. A marriage always requires love .. NO MATTER WHAT. It is wrong ... period!
2007-03-13 12:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sound of how you treat her it sounds like you are in love. If you really feel like you aren't however, then you're only hurting her. If you divorced now, then she could have a chance to get over it.
I hope this advice helps!!! =)
2007-03-13 19:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by ..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that was a Horrible decision to MARRY her if you don't love her. You put yourself in this situation, and you OWE it to her to stay by her side.
2007-03-13 19:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by CrAzY4ChRiSt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something definately wrong with you.
2007-03-13 19:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋