See, this friend i have has liked this guy forever. She recently found out i liked him, so she asked him out. He said no. And later he calls me and says, he said no cause he liked me. I told him i like him too but i couldnt do that to my friend. One cause she's my friend, and two because i'm afraid of her! Yes, i said it i am afraid of her. She's twice my size and she could totally beat me up! What should i do?!
2007-03-13 12:39:43 · 9 answers · asked by Yusaski Omhia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's your friend ? And you are afraid of her ? BAD basis for a friendship. You might want to re-examine that friendship, kiddo.
Now then. If you truly ARE friends, then you did the right thing by not going out with him. (Although, my dear, any friend who would ask a guy out right after she learns her friend likes her is NOT a friend.) Two friends should not be competing over a guy.
If you are NOT friends (and you can see that I don't think you are much of friends) then say goodbye to the friendship and go with the guy.
If you are truly afraid of being beat up - then get out of the friendship and find another friend who will respect you and value your friendship in the same way you were prepared to do.
2007-03-13 12:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!!
You shouldn't be scare of her. She needs to understand that no one can force people to like someone!!!
If he likes you and you like him, go out with him!!! Is NOT like they were in a relationship or anything!!! You have to understand also that if you are scare of your friend then, she shouldn't be your friend.
One should NOT be scare of friends, if she is a good friend she would understand and will be Happy for you, even if is a little bit painful to her "EGO".
Go out with him!!! Is NOT every day that a guy say no to a girl, because he likes her friend, and this is NOT reason enough for you NOT to accept.
GOOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-13 12:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for the guy. If she's really your friend, then you shouldn't let her go. Guys come and go, but true friends are rare. Unless this guy is your "soulmate" which is doubtful, I would say stick with your friend.
P.S. If she gets over him, and I mean really over him, make sure, if he still likes you...Go for it :)
2007-03-13 12:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by CrAzY4ChRiSt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to work things out with your friend and if you can't try to tell the boy you like him and if he likes you ask him to talk to your friend.
2007-03-13 12:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, go meet this guy and ditch your friend
2007-03-13 12:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone, keep your friends......... never let a guy break up a friendship....... and more important, never get beat up over a guy. lol....... 4real though........ keep ur friend leave the guy alone
2007-03-13 12:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she did that she is not a true friend let her go
2007-03-13 12:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by fresh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tayler this is garrett who is the friend that likes him e-mail it to me @ garrett@Journeyassembly.org buy
2007-03-14 07:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Garrett V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scary. :[ DON'T BE AFRAID OF HER! Stand up for yourself.
2007-03-13 12:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋