I've been seeing this guy for about 2 weeks and today he said I love you. Me myself think it's a little to earlly to be saying I love you.An my friend told me that her last boyfriend told her he loved her after 3 weeks of dating and once they had sex he dumped her. How do know if the same thing is going to happen to me.
2007-03-13 12:47:30 · 7 answers · asked by mz.atl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 weeks is too short, how can you spend so little time with someone and then all of the sudden, know you love them? i think hes just trying to sleep with you, tell him tho, if he tries, just tell him NO and if he really loves you, he will respect that, if he doesnt, then why waste your time on someone like that?
2007-03-13 12:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too quick to say the L word, but sometimes people do fall in love that quick, either way, be it not true or true, you shouldnt have sex with a guy just cus he says i love you..I think woman who make guys wait are the smartest becasue that way you can see if the guy is willing to wait for it then he likes you and not your body..besides men love a challenge..the easier you are the less interested..and keep in mind that every person is different, just cus your friend had a bad experience doesnt mean every body who says or does similar things should be penalized ..maybe she should of known that not everybody who says the L word means it and she should have waited to have sex..
2007-03-13 19:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys give love for sex and girls give sex for love; its been said. I think you should enjoy the relationship and the fact that he said he loved you. If he asks for that thing and you are ready to give it up, do it with your heart. Enjoy it too, take what is yours, make it memorable. Guys never forget such things. If he dumps you! 1. You would have also enjoyed the encounter. 2. Mark my words, he will come back and guess who will have the last laugh?
2007-03-13 20:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by God Eros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sure. Just ask yourself if you like this guy enough to take the chance. I'd say go for it though - if he asks for sex early, then simply don't give it to him and tell him you need more time.
2007-03-13 19:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be too sure. Give it a little more time before you sleep with him. If he pressures you or acts like he can't wait, then that's what he is after. And you don't need anyone like that.
2007-03-13 19:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Hester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very very easy ---- dont have sex with him --- if he does love you he will accept that and just want to be with you --- get to know you better
2007-03-13 19:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont
2007-03-13 19:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by mixalot2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋