after a couple months you decide you like him too and start going out with him. Then you find out that while he was pursuing you there was another girl he was hanging out with and having s e x with, would that bother you? Thanks!!!
2007-03-13 13:00:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe a little, but not too much. Nothing to constantly bring up. As long as you make her feel secure about your feelings for her and COMPLETELY drop any ties or communication with the other woman then there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-03-13 13:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might not be perfectly OK with it but you have to understand if you both haven't agreed to be exclusive then he's done nothing wrong. If you don't want him to be with anybody else then talk to him about it. If he doesn't feel that way yet then either deal with it or move on to someone that wants to be exclusive.
It's really hard for most guys to turn down sex...especially when they have no real ties to any other girl. Sex is more of a physical thing for most guys. Not too much emotion involved in it for them...most of the time.
2007-03-13 20:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by dil7827 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course that would bother any girl. That guy is just want one thing and he's not worth your time he didnt even wait for you till your ready to go out then he found someone else to f*ck with what makes you think he's not gonna cheat on you?
2007-03-13 20:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by honeyy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys pull that crap quite often. Just don't expect him to be faithful. But he'll eventually grow out of that whole thing. At least talk to him about it and ask him if he still hangs out with this girl. But no doubt, he'll be around her as long as she is giving out the booty. Guys are stupid that way. Sorry. But you can find decent ones. So just take your time with this one.
2007-03-13 20:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! im not really bother by him hanging out with a nother girl b/c we werent together but if he wanted to be with me why was he having sex with someone eles?
2007-03-13 20:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that would bother, b/c that boy would have try to get with me, but all alone he was with another girl. That would hurt.
2007-03-13 20:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Blossom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think that would bother a woman because if ur with another girl at all she may be mad or probably jealous...
But if u werent "officially" going out, i still dont think she would like that..
=)
2007-03-13 20:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥SWEETIE♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun it depends on many things, like how old you both are, e.g. how responsible you think he is. We all need it right? If the girl to him was just his fix while he was single, then I wouldn't be bothered. Best of luck
2007-03-13 20:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah it would bother me at first, but its not like u guys were together, so its not like he cheated on u or anything. he kept his options open. you could have possibly turned him down. what he did and who he did before u doesn't matter, its what he does when he's with u. thats his past and it was before u started goin out. its nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-13 20:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it would bother me yes and really agrevate me cause if he is talking to me he should be focused on anybody else but there is nothing you can do because techinally yall werent together when they hooked up
2007-03-13 20:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by robinsondancer14 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋