Everybody can't love u. So how do u deal when u find out that someone hates u?? I go into a huge depression mood. And even when i hate that person back. Why do i do this and how do i train myself to not feel this way??
2007-03-13 12:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
everyone has people that don't like them or even hate them but we move on . from what I have read you are the type of person that likes to be like by everyone .but that's not how the world work dear (sorry) even I have people that hate me but I say oh well and keep on living my life my way and not for others .but if the two of you have the same feeling about each other then stay away from one another .you just need to tell your self its not anything that you have done for this one to hate you the they do . and move on in life . best of luck to you .
2007-03-20 07:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by patti_buffkin2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between hate and love. Hate is usually jealousy. Stay cool, be yourself. You will never change their minds. Stay with your positive, loving friends. No need to dwell on it, their not worth a pinch of salt. Happy vibes are positive vibes. Look at yourself, say, "Hey I am a beautiful person" and I don't need people like that in my life.
Stay happy.
2007-03-21 09:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't have that many people hating you.
everytime you feel that way look in the mirror and ask yourself
'do i want to give this person the power to make me this unhappy?'
obviously the answer is NO! so if you have to, have a good cry, wipe your eyes and get out of the house and back to life!
2007-03-19 22:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience. There will be a lot of people out there who don't like you. You just can't let it bother you or you will go nuts. If you REALLY feel like you have to do something (which we all do from time to time), use a poison pen letter. It's a great service. They keep everything confidential. Just fill in the name and address or e-mail address and pick a message. http://poisonpenletters.com/cards/card_list/framset.html
2007-03-13 19:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? If someone hates you it's not you, it's them.
You have no control over how others think of you, and it would be an exercise in futility to think you can get people to like you.
So let it go and embrace that person that hates you. Love them until they don't know what to do.
FP
2007-03-13 19:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really expect everyone to love you? You have completely different interests. be happy that many people Do love you and are your friend. Why would a person who you do not treat as nicely as if they were your friend like you? Theyre not worth the depression. Be active. keep your mind off of it.
2007-03-13 19:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just hate you because their jealous or insecure of themselves. Don't bother with them if they hate you, stay with your other friends or someone else. You can't change another person so it's best to focus on your priorities.
2007-03-13 19:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by AUCT!ON 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can't please everyone all of the time...fact of life.. what do you really care if someone hates you? Really.... you just need to not let things bother you so much, and not stress over them...
especially ppl that have no bearing in your life..
LIFE IS TOO SHORT !! :)
2007-03-20 17:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! It doesn't matter what people think of you. Remember people are going to talk about you until the day you die. Enjoy life forget what [people think of you. God love you and your family I am pretty sure right. Enjoy life, live, love, you only have one life to live.
2007-03-13 20:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already answered it...everyone can't love you...so why waste time dwelling on it. Don't let that person have so much power over you..life is short
2007-03-13 19:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by l8model35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋