It feels greener but I think its lust. Of course its only been 4 months.
2007-03-13 13:33:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we always covet what we can't have. We just have to learn to stop with faith and trust in god to help make a right decision. It's out there don't give up.
2007-03-13 13:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by jbd89 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's see how this hooks up. How long does have to be before you learn that without lust it's just not long enough. Lust is the doorway into love for many people. And it's not that the grass is greener on the other side, it's that there's grass at all.
2007-03-13 20:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes 6 or more. the lust itself can last a few months; it also depends on how extensively you two are communicating as well. if you're in an emotional affair and you two aren't physical, if it all, you can start the process of getting out in 6 months. if the other person isn't adding any fuel to the fire, you're out scott free a few months later. but if you two are going back and forth, pulling the other back into it just when they've gone about as far from you as they can, it can go on forever. sometimes people just need to be physically separated from each other so they can be released. you may want to consider moving to another city or finding another job. on the other hand, if it's sexual then you need to get a feel for what they're like in different situations; if your relationship consists of the motel, or sneaking around or it's a coworker or whatever you can keep that type of thing going on for a while. you'll need to see them in situations where the true person they're hiding can come out ...
2007-03-13 20:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree with other responses. Th grass isn't greener, simply haven't let the fertilizer (BS) soak in. At four months you are knee deep in poo... Hope the ex-grass isn't left alone too long, lots of spectators seeking nice one-owner lawn
2007-03-13 20:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by mizzmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Greg hit it on the head. You meet a guy who has no problem wrecking a family just for your happiness. Most spouses realize after about 6 months that the guy is not who you thought he was and then you begin to realize that what you had was better. There a lot more to this question, feel free to contact me if you want.
2007-03-13 20:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Gary M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, why are you on here apparently gloating that you left one person for another? Just makes you sound needy with a few possible screws loose, and you seem to have picked somebody who doesn't have the decency to leave a woman in a relationship alone. Hardly a win for you either way.
2007-03-13 20:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
years
2007-03-13 20:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by KiTtYcAt7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It usually is just lust. The person who treats you the best is the one you want to stay with. The lust passes. TRUST me.
2007-03-13 20:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is just as green. Really it is. BUT the lawn must still be tended to, and if one isn't a good Gardner the lawn just turns brown.
2007-03-13 20:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow and you'll be fine.. sometimes it is really greener... and sometimes it isnt... thats just a gamble you have to take when you jump the fence.
2007-03-13 21:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋