We finally went out the two of us. We decided to be a couple, but he travels alot. He came home from a two week trip and broke up with me via email. He says he couldn't give me the relationship i want. well, a month and half later i end up talking to him. we are friends, but we hung out this past sunday which led to fooling around. He just left for a another trip and says he is going to take me out when he comes back. I asked should we try a relationship again, he says he doesnt know, bc he is gone so much, that it wouldn't be fair for me or him. Even though he says he likes me alot. I wanted at first a friend's with benefits but now i want more I think. I don't know he is gone right now, so i am not calling him. It's been two days and i haven't heard from him. Do you think he is relationship material?
2007-03-13 13:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here's something that you should know, there's no such thing as a friend with benefits, i say this beause, as soon as you see that person with someone else, it really eats you up inside....(doesn't it)
but to awser you question, if he really feels that a relationship is just not gonna work, than it's not worth it trust me, this is our friendly way to just say, that i don't want to be with you, but as soon as we're near each other...............(well you get the point) you go your way and i'll go mines..... to tell you the truth, if he really wanted to be with you he would of made that commitment no matter how hard it is....... the best i can say is go the other way before you get hurt...
(the only reason that i'm telling you this is because i've hurt so many wonderfull girls in the past with this horseshit, and when i grew up it really ate me up inside. i feel like God is punishing me now because of it......)
2007-03-13 14:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by janier234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other people out there dont u think?
Why waist time over this one guy wen there r people who actually want a relationship not just a little fun every once and a while!
2007-03-13 13:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has pretty much answered your question. He has told you that he cannot give you what you want. Just be friends with him for now. If something more is meant to be, it will happen when it's supposed to. Until he can be at home for good and commit to you, just be friends with him and date other people. Like I said, if it's meant to be, it'll happen.
2007-03-13 13:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he pretty much told you that he can't give you what you want. I think you need to move on, becuz he has a wife. You can't be the other woman. ♥
2007-03-13 13:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know he seems a little shifty. But talk to him and see what's going on and if he is willing to commit. If not drop him.
2007-03-13 13:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by jbd89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a wife get a clue......
2007-03-13 13:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋