I want to know How I would know if We are ready to Go farther.. (if you know what I mean..) I have Know him for like 4 yrs now and we have just dated twice and I really love him, Alot. We have been alone plenty of times and havent done nothing, but I'm getting to where I want him to be my first. And I dont know how I could really tell if I'm sure about it. I need some advice also to tell me how I could also know If he really cares enough for me to stay with me if he does be my first. He tells me that he wants to marry me and everything. I would do anything for him. But I need help knowing 1. how to tell if I'm ready or not. 2. How to tell if he will stick with me if he does get to be my first. 3. And how to tell if its real love or not, I'm so confused.
2007-03-13 13:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by marcy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends really on how old you are as well.
2007-03-13 13:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Marge F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! honey you sound just like me. I am so in love with this guy, but my heart and mind is not on the same page. My heart is telling me that he maynot be the one for me. My mind is telling me he is the one for me I am so confuse. When my heart and mind is on the same level I will make my move other then that I can't not. I think you should listen to your heart, life is too short to be playing around with someone if he isn't the one.
2007-03-13 20:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. if your asking for opinions on this your not ready.
2. youll know when he leaves in the morning.
3. your not in love. your to confused about it.
2007-03-13 20:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur that confused i'd say ur not ready and u didnt say what ur age is but i take it ur young and believe me there's plenty of time left in ur life for sex there's no big hurry wait and when ur ready u'll be sure of it in ur on mind and heart ur not ready now so dont push it
2007-03-13 20:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age
if you are 12 it is one thing
if you are 16 it's another
if you are 21 it is still somethng else.
so, sorry i can not say without knowing your age.
2007-03-13 20:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Don't jump in to something to fast...you might regret it when you get older.
2007-03-13 20:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mommy of 2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋