Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

be honest

2007-03-09 05:23:35 · 25 answers · asked by Brian H 2 in Friends

theres this boy that i really like but he's a cancer and im a libra and libras and cancer is not a good match, and my ex was a pieces and we really didnt have a good relationship, do yall think i should just give this relationship a try and see where it goes from there or should i not just even bother?
thanks in advance!

2007-03-09 05:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been divorced for 5 and half years, for the first 3 years we agreed on summer visitation. The papers say, He gets our children between no earlier than the day school is let out ot for summer vacation, and no later the day school resumes in august, for thirty days. He tells, well his "mama" says they get the kids all summer, and thats the way it should be, (she says)but anyway, i am so tired of thinking she can run me, which i dont let her. should i take them back to court?

2007-03-09 05:22:58 · 4 answers · asked by karen j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with my boyfriend, but I kinda like this other guy too! What do I do?

2007-03-09 05:22:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been divorced for 5 and half years, for the first 3 years we agreed on summer visitation. The papers say, He gets our children between no earlier than the day school is let out ot for summer vacation, and no later the day school resumes in august, for thirty days. He tells, well his "mama" says they get the kids all summer, and thats the way it should be, (she says)but anyway, i am so tired of thinking she can run me, which i dont let her. should i take them back to court?

2007-03-09 05:22:02 · 5 answers · asked by karen j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

8 days since disclosure - I have been fine. Now I am a wreck. I don't want our marriage to end, and I can't imagine having to leave him. I feel such despair.

2007-03-09 05:22:02 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if you are about to make love your man phones ring he jumps to answer the phone at that time he was (down town) he missed the call ,come to find out is was a rental company about a car he needed he didn't know at the time who it was, was that ruled are something to worry about.

2007-03-09 05:21:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend his name is Ben. We hang out every Wensday at Applebee's and we go to church together. I have been crushing on this guy for sometime. All my friends are telling me that he likes me, and that he has for awhile. I cannot tell if he does or not. I have tried to send clear signals of "hey Ben I like you." If he does like me I cannot tell. When we are in youth group I sometimes catch him glancing at me. He always sits by me at Applebee's. Everytime I come up to him he asks for a high five behind his back. And when he wears a hat I always playfully take it and when I return it to him he puts his head out and clearly signals to me to put it back on his head. I plan on telling him that I like him and I want to know if he likes me. Help? What should I say and what should I do?

2007-03-09 05:20:47 · 22 answers · asked by iLissy! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:20:40 · 15 answers · asked by maria c 1 in Family

How can I get it across the the woman that her bush is completely overgrown and the whole neighborhood would be greatful if she would trim it....even if it's just a little?

It would make our weekly games of strip Uno so much more fun.

2007-03-09 05:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by DoubleD 2 in Singles & Dating

it seems that every time i like a guy or become interested in a guy, he ends up falling for my friend. now, i love my friend to death, and it's not like she throws herself at guys.....she's always just being herself.
so what's wrong with me? why can't i just be myself and have the guy i like be interested in me? i think i look fine, i have no self esteem issues. i just wish, for once, when i like a guy, he likes me and not my friend. (as selfish as that kinda sounds).

2007-03-09 05:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 47 yrs old & curently using a internet dateing service.People tell me I look at least ten yrs younger than I am.I don't think like people my own age & I certainly don't feel this old. I'm sorry but, women my age just look too old for me with a few exceptions of course.

2007-03-09 05:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by jimbobob 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and in the 10th grade and i'm attracted to a 9th grader. Thats not the problem the problem is she is popular and I'm not. I'm not unpopular but I would be stuck in the middle. I'm also not the typical body type I've seen her with. All of he other boyfriends are are the fit skinny populat guys. What should I do?

2007-03-09 05:17:45 · 4 answers · asked by londomfan 1 in Singles & Dating

The situation is kinda complicated. Her parents are so strict. She is 18 years now. She has to ask for EVERYTHING and her parents hardly ever say "Yes". There is no change for me to do something with her. IF she is allowed to go out we have not that much time and it is always more stressful than enjoyable. She has to be home at half past five and not a minute later. But she isn't allowed to go away before half past three, because she has to drink coffe with her parents before... So we only have two hours!
She has been my best friend for 14 years now. But now she changed. She suddenly says that her parents are right and that she is ok with all those foriddings and stuff.

What happend to her? Should I just give her up?

I actually don'T want a friend who I can only see 2 hours a day, IF her parents say "Yes" That is all so annoying and now she won't even do something about it because she is ok with it!

2007-03-09 05:17:39 · 6 answers · asked by mc_fly_11 2 in Friends

two opposite genders - what is difference if they call themselves best friends or boy / girl friend of each other? i feel nothing still a question for arguement.

2007-03-09 05:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by PG 2 in Friends

ok im a lesbian. and im about to b 19. i havent had a girlfriend since i was seventeen? i do not know how to find girls and if i c 1 in the street i dont know how to approach them, i dont go to clubs because i cant dance, and i dont go out like around the city and stuff because i have no friends. and im a really pretty gurl! when i do meet gurls, i get so happy becuz i havent had one in a while i smother them? can u help me

2007-03-09 05:17:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my step daughter is 16 and my daughter is 15 , and they are exeptionally close(and that is great and all...),but...
when they are together , the house is turmoil. What I mean by this , is the older one the other day acted all "tired" and said she was going to bed...I was like oh ok goodnight and then my 15 yr old did the same thing, well..a few hours later at around midnight I went to go check on the baby and cover him up and I noticed their radio in their room was not on and it is usually on and a night light is on, well it was off and so i wen to check on them. they were gone!! so i checked the whole house and outside front and back yard, well...before i panicked I callled Erica's mom and she and I suggested to have me call the cops to go and look for these teenagers of ours. my hubby was asleep and wanted no part in it and rolled his eyes. mind you it was a weeknight!! i called the cops and they went searching for them~ well 4 1/2 hours later at like 4:45 am they came back and....

2007-03-09 05:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am Catholic, though not very "hard-core" i do not go to churhc every Sun., though I do believe in the Catholic beliefs. My finacee, who I have been with for 7 years, is Mormon, he has not been practicing for several years, however, believes that the Mormon church is the "right church". While this isn't going to split us up, I am concerned about having children. I would prefer not to raise them Mormon, as it is very hard for me to understand and accept what the religion teachs and preachs. I do not feel that they should need to be Catholic, but they need some type of religion. I have tried to suggest other religions that we may be able to settle on and my Finacee is not budging. My parents were 2 different religions (Lutheran and Catholic) which are very similar. I am not asking him to convert, however, his family thinks I should convert to Mormonism. My grandfather was Mormon and didn't have a good expirience and I am having a hard time saying I will raise my kids as Mormon.

2007-03-09 05:16:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Huh..ummm...look at the question?

2007-03-09 05:16:04 · 22 answers · asked by Bubz 1 in Singles & Dating

i acted like such a pyscho with this guy I was dating.. Right before I met him, my close cousin died, but I didn't want to tell him so I wouldn't seem depressing.. We were cool for a while, but my moods were up and down.. He told me he was tired of it. When he broke up with me, I sort of went pyscho and sent him about 4 text messeges telling him please let me explain what's wrong etc. and he didn't respond.. I realize now that was totally pyscho but at the time my emotions were out of control.. I sent him one last text apoligizing and saying i'm real embarrassed for the drama.. It's been about 3 weeks, I'd like to call him and explain and try to be friends.. He's nice person, so once I get him on the line I think he'd understand. But would it look psycho to call him after what happened? I honestly don't know what's crazy and what's not bc my emotions are kind of weird right now..

2007-03-09 05:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy moans while your making out or is that normal?

2007-03-09 05:14:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, he knows that I love him so much the last time we talked he told me that he already have girlfriend which is good because I thought it would be easy for me to get this feelings over but I was wrong, recently, he ask for a hug so I gave him a hug and he ask if he can kiss me then he kiss me on the lips. I ask hows his girlfriend he doesn't say a word...why is that? now I was left hanging in the air? I really love this guy but it seems that its not getting anywhere please me....
Thanks so much!!!!

2007-03-09 05:14:25 · 6 answers · asked by spydurwuman 1 in Singles & Dating

So kinda long story... my ex and I were on and off for about two years up until last week. He decided to tell me one night that he had been lying to me. During one of our 'off' moments, he went and slept with 4 different girls. We promised each other that we would always be honest with eachother. I had kissed a guy at one point, and when I told him he went balistic. hearing him tell me these things was just heart-breaking. I basically had a breakdown, and told him that I couldn't talk to him for awhile. Hesaid that it wasnt wrong what he did, just wrong that he lied about it, so I shouldn't be mad anymore now that he's being honest with me...
I spent the next two days trying to be okay, and finally got to the point where I realized that i was better than this and didn't need him to be okay, and that I am still an amazing woman.
My ex just called my work crying, saying he is so sorry and needs to see me and wants to make it right. Should I see him? I still love him, i just

2007-03-09 05:14:16 · 22 answers · asked by Mandi Jo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by Amy D. 1 in Weddings

Who you ask? My buttcheeks of course. ;) Thanks for putting up with me!!!

2007-03-09 05:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:13:28 · 6 answers · asked by spyder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:13:17 · 7 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok see i have been dating this guy for a lil over a year!. and i love him more then anything in the world! he is going to iraq this summer bcuz he is a marine. and he is my everything but im only 16..see that doesn't matter to me or not but like i don't really think that im ready to get married, he wants to get married after i graduate and i kindof don't want to get married that soon, he asked me to marry him on christmas and it was the greatest feeling in the world and i said yea, so now we are engaged and my parents don't mind as long as i wait untill i graduate!..how do i tell him i'm not ready to get married, or do you think i am!..i really don't know anymore!

2007-03-09 05:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by nikki m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a relationship with a girl for 2 years and then we broke up because she had other intentions.Our families know each other pretty well.I did not talk to her for 6 months after we broke up but we still considered each other as best friends.Recently her dad was murdered and this incident has broken her into pieces.Our relationship is not legal and so I cannot meet her evn though she wants to but we both study in the same campus and I also know her friends pretty well.Sometimes we talk on phone and most of the time she feels very low because her dad was everything to her.Pls suggest me ways to make her happy and make her feel like a princess even if I cant meet her.Your help will really be appreciated.

2007-03-09 05:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just dont get it. She broke up with me because she felt that she wasn't ready for another relationship and that she has to focus with college. I respected her decision

We have class together. She has been ignoring for the first two weeks then started talking again. Somehow, I feel like she doesn't respect me. Everytime she would always talk to our friend and leave me out of the conversation. Even when we would do work together, she would only come to me when she has to.. like during lab class for help.

Recently she started being cold again and I got tired of it so i ignored her for that day. she asked me what was wrong and I confronted her about it and that I didnt care anymore. she got defensive and now we dont approach each other at all. She did however apologize afterwards online saying that she is sorry for the way she treated me, and that was it.

She is not the type that likes to play games but is somewhat shy and not expressive. I know she isnt a bad person.

2007-03-09 05:12:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends