I am 16 and in the 10th grade and i'm attracted to a 9th grader. Thats not the problem the problem is she is popular and I'm not. I'm not unpopular but I would be stuck in the middle. I'm also not the typical body type I've seen her with. All of he other boyfriends are are the fit skinny populat guys. What should I do?
2007-03-09 05:17:45 · 4 answers · asked by londomfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can bet my life on it that your way too good for her... When I was in school I seen loads of situations like that.... The one bit of, what u might call advice I can give you is that - In her mind there is probably no-one good enough for her... Press on my dear man, cos even if u do manage to waggle your way in there, she'll break your heart.. Take it from some one who knows.....
2007-03-09 05:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Point 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the truth listen up if you don't just ignore me.
If you know what kind of guy she goes for and they look all about the same this means she is more than likely shallow.
The outside counts more than the inside for her. I don't care how sweet people say she is she is popular for a reason. If you are a nice guy and I'm assuming you are, you should trust your instincts. You are still young and there is no harm in letting her know how you feel don't torture yourself with fear of rejection. Your going to go through it a number of times before you find the ONE. Don't stress about it you've got time on your side.
2007-03-09 13:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and stop worrying about everyone else you are what you are. I was like you in school and today i am married to a model . the one thing i learned is that if she doesnt like you the way you are she wont like you if your popular. be a leader not just a follower as i suspect many are that chase her.
2007-03-09 13:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by aggadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever try to disdain yourself... who cares if your not popular? At least you are what you are. Who knows one of that popular guys in your school is just trying to pretend to a person whom he's not... relax... I know you can overcome them... Trust yourself...
2007-03-09 13:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by satome24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋