i acted like such a pyscho with this guy I was dating.. Right before I met him, my close cousin died, but I didn't want to tell him so I wouldn't seem depressing.. We were cool for a while, but my moods were up and down.. He told me he was tired of it. When he broke up with me, I sort of went pyscho and sent him about 4 text messeges telling him please let me explain what's wrong etc. and he didn't respond.. I realize now that was totally pyscho but at the time my emotions were out of control.. I sent him one last text apoligizing and saying i'm real embarrassed for the drama.. It's been about 3 weeks, I'd like to call him and explain and try to be friends.. He's nice person, so once I get him on the line I think he'd understand. But would it look psycho to call him after what happened? I honestly don't know what's crazy and what's not bc my emotions are kind of weird right now..
2007-03-09 05:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might have to leave this one go.
Maybe try one last time, an email/letter (or some other one way communication) saying your situation and asking if he'd like to try again taking it slow.
2007-03-09 05:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not what you want to hear, but I think you need to let this one go. Give yourself some time to deal with your cousin's death and get control of your up & down emotions, then make a fresh start with someone else. Further down the road, if you run into him you can say "hey, I was having a rough time" and see where it goes from there. But for now, best to let you both of you have some space.
2007-03-09 13:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by amarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably learned a significant lesson, that people will be more understanding when you are straightforward and do not hide things. Let it go, let him go, move on and take what you learned to build your own self awareness. You tried and he's not responding. What more do you need to get the message? You need to focus on yourself, deal with your grief and loss and take the lessons forward to apply in a constructive way that will help you understand yourself, rather than worrying about what he may think. It seems that you could use some significant alone-time to heal.
2007-03-09 13:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Inquisitive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont beleive in that crap of been weird and crazy and that been the reason ghe doesnt respond. if he really loved u he would let u explain. trust me when i first started dating my bf i did something really stupid. he didnt call me for 3 days so i went to look for him at his cousins' wifes house at midnite and he gor really upset. when i left i started calling him but he wouldnt aswer and i texted him about 20 times some text said bad things insults etc and some others were i love u please dont be mad... how crazy is that??? the next day he calle dme and broke up with me. but a day later he called me and said that he still wanted to be with me but that he would love it if i never did something like that again. so the moral of the story is that no matter how weird u acted if he loved u he will let u explain.
2007-03-09 13:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup psycho. I dont understand what was wrong with telling him your aunt died in the first place. I dont get it.
2007-03-09 13:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes itwill help else if he like sees you on thestreet he will keep thinking ur freaky so call him and keep it short dont divert fromthe topic and be cool dont whine.
2007-03-09 13:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by cassandraajufoh26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sounds like he doesnt want to be with you anymore . his loss not yours . If he wanted you back he knows how to get ahold of you .
2007-03-09 13:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeaapppp.......
2007-03-09 13:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋