The situation is kinda complicated. Her parents are so strict. She is 18 years now. She has to ask for EVERYTHING and her parents hardly ever say "Yes". There is no change for me to do something with her. IF she is allowed to go out we have not that much time and it is always more stressful than enjoyable. She has to be home at half past five and not a minute later. But she isn't allowed to go away before half past three, because she has to drink coffe with her parents before... So we only have two hours!
She has been my best friend for 14 years now. But now she changed. She suddenly says that her parents are right and that she is ok with all those foriddings and stuff.
What happend to her? Should I just give her up?
I actually don'T want a friend who I can only see 2 hours a day, IF her parents say "Yes" That is all so annoying and now she won't even do something about it because she is ok with it!
2007-03-09 05:17:39 · 6 answers · asked by mc_fly_11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't fight her parents, don't even try. If she isn't grown up enough to put her foot down then just leave it be. Don't necessarily end the friendship, because one of these days she may see the light. But, in the meantime move on and find other friends who you can have fun with, and cut back seeing this other friend.
2007-03-09 18:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to end your friendship over something this petty then it must not mean that much to you. If you end a 14 year friendship over this you will likely regret it later. And she may not forgive you when you realize it.
As long as she is living in her parents home she has to follow their rules, even if she is an adult.
Just because you werent brought up in this sort of family, doesnt mean that its wrong. Im sure her parents have her best interest in mind. And if your friend is ok with it that is her perogative.
2007-03-09 05:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should end your friendship with your best friend just because her parents are very strict! You should talk to your parents and tell them how you feel! Even though your best friend is living under her parents' roof, the both of you are adults and taking full responsibililty for your actions! Continue to be there for her and if it doesn't work out, then let her go and move on. Good luck!
2007-03-09 06:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow., it sounds like to me that you need to sit down and talk with your friends parents and see if they will allow it. But dont end your friendship over that
2007-03-09 05:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by klw940 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should drop her as a friend like that..... it's her parents, not her.....and u cant blame her for siding with her parents, i mean, theyre her parents......if her friendship is that valuable to you, dont end it......especially after 14 years....don't ruin a relationship like that over her parents, and appreciate the time u can spend together =)
2007-03-09 05:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_n_sexii94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her friendship means alot to you, deal with it!
2007-03-09 05:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋