I am in love with my boyfriend, but I kinda like this other guy too! What do I do?
2007-03-09 05:22:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok y'all are right I will evaluate my whole relationship. We've just been having some problems lately and I think he is interested in someone else, but it's just here-say.
2007-03-09 06:04:37 · update #1
if u were actually in love with your boyfriend then i don't think you be attracted to another guy. you should do a pro and con list for your boyfriend and for this guy that you like. in my opinion i think you shouldn't risk your relationship for a guy that you just fancy
2007-03-17 03:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are in love with your boyfriend. I think you love him, but there is not a very solid commitment if any. If there were, you would not be interested in another guy. Re-evaluate the relationship you have with your boyfriend.
2007-03-09 13:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This hapened to me.I know this may sound crazy ,but maybe you aren't in love with your boyfriend and you just think you are? I dated this guy for 2 years. I never felt as deeply as I did for any other guy, but at the same time I felt like something was wrong or missing. As time went on I started noticeing that I was developing feelings for my best friend (a guy). We never flirted, but the feelings became stronger and stronger. So strong that I couldn't take it anymore. I broke up with my boyfriend and out of anger he confessed to me that he was cheating on me with 5 other girls.One of the girls he got pregnant. My instincts were right and I ended up dating my best friend. We are still together today and we're planning on getting married (: I went through this whole story just to let you know If you are with this guy and you have feelings for another then you aren't in love. You may like him a lot but you don't love him.You are probably just infatuated with him.If you did love him you wouldn't have feelings for another guy. The one you truly love could be right in front of you and you just haven't realized it yet.
2007-03-17 02:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Deja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was feeling like that a couple weeks ago. what happened is that me n my bf were arguing all the time n then this guys started talkin to me outta nowhere n i think i started liking this guy but then i realized that i love and in love with my bf the other guy was just a minute thing. my bf is 4ever we love each other very much. just try to be more lovey n touchey with him n nice n ull see how that takes you back to the place u used to be when u guys first started . trust me it works!! rite now were great!!!! :)
2007-03-17 11:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by claudia g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone, yet like someone else? I think you should re-evaluate how you feel toward your boyfriend.
2007-03-09 13:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by paintkoop88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you love your boyfriend but your not in love with him.
I say follow your heart and see were it takes you.
Never stay with someone you can live with and find the one you can't live without.
2007-03-09 14:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Soul Survivor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love your boyfriend there is no way you like another guy.. Love works that way... Think About it.. Good luck
2007-03-09 13:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a desire, something that excites you and gives you curiosity.
Relax, if you love your boyfriend, keep in mind the other feelling would go away
2007-03-17 12:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Skater Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you love your boyfriend, but not in love with him anymore. You have started to like another guy, telltale sign that it's time to move on.
2007-03-09 13:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by laceywat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to reassess your feelings towards the both of them.make up your mind.you're being unfaithful if you continue to feel like loving and liking someone at the same time. be fair. remember, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND! good luck
2007-03-17 03:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by ilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋