Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

I know that it's bad....but what i am asking is if he never told you until it was like six months in the relationship and he has already bought yoou things and taken you on trips....should you feel guilty or should he be more at fault for not only adultery but going against his religion by loving another man?

2007-03-09 05:34:11 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this was all during the last 2 months. and this is all because i felt bad that she was cheating on me with my best friend and i didn't see him for a while before i so them having sex(it ripped my heart I wanted to cry for 2 weeks), and my wife monica didn't tell him that we are married. and I don't want her to kill me. if she dosen't kill me i want to tell her that 5 included me lol! well the funny part is that one of the guys was her ex-bf, on of the chicks was my ex, and 2 of the chicks are her friends, but i wouldn't say best fiends.
Well you heard my story, now how do I tell her without getting killed by her

2007-03-09 05:34:06 · 8 answers · asked by the punaniester 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked my boyfriend why we havent had sex yet and he finally admitted to me that he "contracted" something. that freaked me out but i tried to hide that it scared me because i didnt want to hurt his feelings, later in conversation it came up that there isnt a cure for it yet. i dont know what he has and i dont know how to ask. he asked me if it would be a problem and i changed the subject because its a lot to think about. what could it be and what would you do? if he has something but there is a way i can avoid getting it then maybe i will try to work something out with him. my heart hurts a lot, i really care for him, i don't want to break up with him. i dont want to punish him for being honest with me. i don't know what to do. please help
thanks a lot.

2007-03-09 05:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this specific young man I fancy in my economics class. I have been out of school for two days due to my sickness.
I KNOW he likes me, and he knows who I am after my 6 months of fancying him. Finally, he has taken notice of me and makes eye contact and smiles.
I am too scared to talk to him.
I am his friend on both myspace and facebook.
So should I start up a conversation in a MySpace comment asking what we were doing in school?
I always usually have a feeling when a guy likes me, and this one is solid. I mean, I just know.
He has a lot of friends- mostly boys- but I don't want to approach him when he is around them.
He even says hi sometimes and makes comments to me abouut how slow people in front of us walk.
I dunno... maybe he thinks I won't like him... I do have a tendancy to come off as a girl who isn't interested.

2007-03-09 05:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah* 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:32:53 · 14 answers · asked by hydrargyrum 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by wesley g 1 in Weddings

Ok, I missed school today because I am sick. Im in drama and we have to do a skit, we could have either done the skit today, or monday, so I just checked my phone and one of my friends who is in the skit is all "well we are gunna get someone to replace u, and you can just fail it, its not really our problem" is it just me or is that rude as hell ? I know it is partly my fault for not showing up but they could have waited and done it on monday

2007-03-09 05:32:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive seen with my bf for a month and a half(im 20,hes 24)We live about a half hour away and he doesnt drive,only i do.im getting REALLY frustrated with the amount of time we spend together.last sat,i saw him but we were out at a bar,sunday we went ATVing with all his buddies.on tues i saw him,with his parents.i feel like we NEVER spend any time alone.I asked him to hang out last night but he said he was too tired i told him how i feel about this and he keeps saying i shouldnt feel that way and to just 'chill'.the fact that its like pulling teeth to see him and that were never alone make me feel like he doesnt care about me.he said that his friend sees his gf once a week and they have a perfect relationship,and when i asked him if he'd be ok with seeing me 1 a week he said yes.i think that is rediculous!!especially for a new relationship.he hasnt had a gf in 2 years so should i give him more time/space?how should i handle this,should i act distant back?I dont want to just break up!

2007-03-09 05:31:47 · 18 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

how do I get those of you who like some playful fun to approach me and play ... either in person, on on here?

2007-03-09 05:31:34 · 14 answers · asked by mnencefront 3 in Singles & Dating

OK here is the deal....

He is awesome, he thinks I am great..... We have been dating a little over a month and we are ready to take it to the next level.

One problem...........

We have crazy scedules! I work two jobs wich totals up to about 70-75 hours a week. He works and goes to school full time. Whenever we see eachother it is for and hour or two at like 1:00am. We never get to spend any quality time with eachother. He also lives about 45 minutes from me but works in my area so we can have a couple of drinks or something about 5 nights a week before he has to head home. I just recently had to move back in with my parents due to a bad roommate situation.

We both know that neither one of us is going anywhere but damn...

Any advice?

2007-03-09 05:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm tired. It's frustrating to me. If you answer this answer Part 2

2007-03-09 05:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by mr.starbux 1 in Singles & Dating

It come to my attion that some wifes leave there husband b/c there "not happy". To keep this short I know some married wifes who complane to me about there not being happy and leaving there husband for some new guy who says that he will make them happy. In my heart I see this as being wrong. I don't think any of husbands are bad guys just that they lost that spark in there love life. Here is my quesion: Say this wife does leave her husband to find happinest some where else, you think she will find it? Also do you think its right to leave your marrage b/c you got tired of it and want something new that makes you happy. I mean the oath you made means nothing if your not happy...thats the married women and guys say. Do you agree?

2007-03-09 05:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I married my highschool sweety and we have been together for 15 years. Well she decided to have an affair at work and stay with her new man. We divorced last year. I have never been on a date exept with her. I'm 33 6'2 and my family and friends say I'm very good looking. I'm also in good shape. But I don't know what to expect now days. I'm not looking for sex I actually liked being in a commited long term relationship . Any help?

2007-03-09 05:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by The best I can do 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf really likes to play around with my "boys" while we are in bed. It started as just holding and squeezing but now she is into slapping and even punching. I have a really high pain tolerance so it doesn't bother me much, but I find the behavior quite odd. When I've asked her about it she just says it turns her on. I'm inclined to just let her go at it, but is this a sign of some deeper problem?

2007-03-09 05:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13...and i see people whining and complaining that there parents wont let them do anything....in a way, they are lucky! my mom and dad are in the process of divorce...and i dont get along with my mom...so im living with my dad. both my parents are easygoing. they may say that i cant watch tv until i wash the dishes....stuff like that and i hate it. but i dont have a bedtime....i stay up as late as i want....i dont stay up late though cuz i know i need sleep...my dad doesnt make me do chores...and im not rich and a brat....im far from being rich. the only time i have to do chores is when i dont wash the dishes or something and i see they needed to be washed for like 3 days. my parents have never mentioned i cant date until im like 16. they would just let me....im not saying my parents are bad parents cuz they arent. my dad he talks to me about God and stuff and im in a private school right now...i just wanna know that they care about what im doing. how do i know?

2007-03-09 05:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Teenager 5 in Family

My husband's Aunt that he is really close to is attending, but now his cousins aren't because of school conflicts and work. Originally they said that they were coming, but now they can't. Do you think this is rude? Should I take it as bad like they have something against me? His cousins are like 15, 17, and 20 years old. The 15 yr old has a girlfriend (I think) and the 20 year old has a boyfriend (not sure). I only put on the invitation his Aunt and family. I didn't specify that his cousing could bring thier bf or gf. I don't even know for sure if they even had one or not, because I don't see them a lot and they are never at the family get together's. Could they be offended that I did't invite their BF or GF? or Am I just looking into this too hard?

2007-03-09 05:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by lc 1 in Weddings

we try and see my boyfriends son at least once a month, but im not working, im looking for work ,and were just on his wage. when we ask to have his son she makes an excuse up and sends us txts saying if u dont do this n that you cant see him , well shes gotta realise we havnt alot of money , and we try our best to see him. what shall we do , shal we just go to court? that might stop her from sending horrible txts. she trys and make my boyfriend sound horrible and hes not i have been with him just over a year and she says she pittys me. she made my boyfriend depressd wen he was with her and hes happy with me . do you think shes jealous?

2007-03-09 05:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by sahara07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

however i haven't yet told my parents although my friends know. i feel like i'm keeeping a big secret but i'm scared to tell mum esp incase she goes mad. I don't hold his past against him and neither should she. his daughter is part of him and his life and i accept that. i have known him for 8 months now and have been dating for 3...when should i tell my parents?

2007-03-09 05:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

help?

2007-03-09 05:27:27 · 2 answers · asked by mgle3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 05:26:34 · 1 answers · asked by Proofoflife 3 in Singles & Dating

okay. my husband sent his child off acouple months ago to live with his mom because he was causing us so much problems between each other and the other children. his child was horrible, not listening getting into everything, back talking, being mean to his sisters. now my husband wants to bring him back and i dont want him to come back and be with us full time like my husband wants. since the child has been gone nothing has gone wrong, everything in our lives has went right. should i tell my husband how i feel or leave it alone. if i should tell him , how do i do that??? i need help/

2007-03-09 05:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffany h 2 in Family

what make him happy when hes down

2007-03-09 05:26:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well im married and im 18 and we argue alot but we dont hitt each other! Should i just wait things out or what! Weve been married almost a year!

2007-03-09 05:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Singles & Dating

I gave my girl fren( unofficial ) a soft toy. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?We still mail each other once every week... What does this mean?

2007-03-09 05:25:50 · 5 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

on you, and you've had the "casual" hotts for this person...do you give in and worry about it in the morning? Or do you stand firm and play it off?

What if you haven't had it for sometime and really need the release yourself? Does that change the decision?

2007-03-09 05:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why i ask? when their is a perfect puss there

2007-03-09 05:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by fethawi s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

That would be my wifes sister. She's married too. She's always finding ways for us to get together, without our spouses. When she talks to me, she rubs up against me. She totally turns me on, cuz she's got a great personality,and she's very attractive with a smokin hot body. I want to, but it could cause some problems. What should I do?

2007-03-09 05:25:16 · 20 answers · asked by timmer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im Dating This Girl And I Really Like Her But I Like Her Mentally Not Physically She Isnt What Im Looking For Physically...But She Has A Great Personality And She Cares About Me Alot As I Do About Her...But My Mind Is Stuck On How She Should Look Just To Go By My Standards And How Other Females I Usually Date Look Like...I Dont Want To Hurt Her But I Also Dont Know If I Should Stay With Her Knowing That I Might Cheat On Her With SomeOne Who LOOKS Better...Im So Confused...PLEASE HELP!?!?!

2007-03-09 05:24:45 · 5 answers · asked by St3pH RoCksz 2 in Singles & Dating

if you think your boyfriend doesn't really like you or is just datin you to say that he's dating you or is he hella shy.. When around his friends but fine when your alone with him ..

2007-03-09 05:24:16 · 10 answers · asked by kelli m 1 in Friends

Single women come home, see what's in the fridge and go to bed.Married women come home, see what's in bed and go to the fridge.

2007-03-09 05:23:42 · 18 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 2 in Singles & Dating