That would be my wifes sister. She's married too. She's always finding ways for us to get together, without our spouses. When she talks to me, she rubs up against me. She totally turns me on, cuz she's got a great personality,and she's very attractive with a smokin hot body. I want to, but it could cause some problems. What should I do?
2007-03-09 05:25:16 · 20 answers · asked by timmer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're doing exactly what you should do - you're keeping your cool. Enjoy the attention but leave it at that. You may think your wife and her hubby aren't aware of what's going on, but believe me, they're not stupid. The instant it goes any further, they'll both know, and then dude, the stuff will hit the fan!
2007-03-09 05:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? you are married hello!! does that ring a bell?? stay away from her. just because someone has a hot body doesnt mean you need to have it. your a man not a teenager,lets get a grip. your poor wife her sister is a skank. and you think it would cause problems in the family, come on! what is wrong with you? you are playing with fire,and you have the nerve to say you want to. why be married in the first place?
2007-03-09 13:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say she has a great personality...when she is being disloyal to her own sister, for God's sake ??? She sounds like a brazen hussie to me. And you're a jerk for thinking about her in this way. You don't love your wife, so you may as well get a divorce right now. Don't you feel sorry for your wife ? How would she feel if she knew about all of this ? She's better off without you in her life and her own sister ought to be really, really ashamed of herself...but I doubt she is. How can people do this to other people, ESPECIALLY their own relatives ??? Craziness, that's what it is. Quit acting like disrespectful morons and do the right thing...
2007-03-09 13:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by BRAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife how uncomfortable her sister makes you. Ask her why she thinks her sister tries to get you alone. Hopefully your wife will appreciate your openness and honesty.
My wife recently hooked back up with a close childhood girlfriend. When I told my wife about her doing the same things you are describing, she kind of blew me off like it was my imagination, but she is starting to see it for herself now.
Also, like the investigator explained, it could be a scheme between the two of them to test you. I would hate to think that my wife and her friend are doing that with me, although it has crossed my mind since my wife initially tried to down play my concerns about her friend.
2007-03-09 13:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is if you love your wife and you want to be with her find a way to prove it to her then let her know otherwise things can get pretty crazy if you are sure that you want to be with her sister (you said you want to) then explain it to your wife as calmly as possible and try to work things out with her and her sister. If there are kids involved think long and hard on your decision kids are the most important in this hope i could help
2007-03-09 13:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to then you should leave your wife first.
Is the sister in law worth losing your wife for?
Trust me, she likes you because she knows she can't have you and when she knows you're available, she'll lose interest.
In the end your wife will take her sisters side and you'll come off looking like a sleaze bag.
2007-03-09 13:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you stay away from her. Stop getting together with her w/out your wife and quite messing around. You need to be a man and set her straight and not hurt your wife or your brother in law. If it were your wife and your brother in law, what would you do? Probably sock him one, right........don't be surprised if he does the same! Good luck!
2007-03-09 13:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her to quit doing things like that, b/c you are married to her sister and she is also married. Then, if that does not work tell your wife and her husband... Don't mess up if you love your wife, b/c if you do your wife will never be able to forgive you, b/c that is her sister...
2007-03-09 13:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is too... I knew her before my wife and she's always liked me though we never had relations. She's not as aggressive as you describe but anyway, back to you.
There's too much at stake for the sake of a roll in the hay... back off.
2007-03-09 13:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot. What if it was your wife and your brother? Shouldn't need to think about that very hard or long.
2007-03-09 13:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Lori F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋