on you, and you've had the "casual" hotts for this person...do you give in and worry about it in the morning? Or do you stand firm and play it off?
What if you haven't had it for sometime and really need the release yourself? Does that change the decision?
2007-03-09 05:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter how tempting, I'd not go for it...it's not worth risking a friendship over, no matter how long it may have been since I'd "had it".
2007-03-09 05:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your friend is drunk, then you are taking unfair advantage of them. They may regret what they did, and resent you for it, or even blame you if you were sober and clearly took advantage of them.
Will you really be satisfied with a one-night stand? If this is your friend, obviously you like and respect them somewhat - wouldn't it be better to limit yourself to a few kisses, and then ask them out for real the next day? Can your friendship withstand a casual hook-up? Are you sure your friend is okay with this level of intimacy, or will they consider it rape?
Basically, if they would consent to it when they're sober, it's probably okay, but it's better not to push your luck. Just keep it to a little light making out, and try for the full "release" another time when you both know what you're getting into. if you have any misgivings, it's probably a bad idea.
2007-03-09 13:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I'm drunk and one of my hott girl friends jumped on me, it would be hard to say no. Honestly, I've never said no in this situation. I'm lucky our communication was good, because there was no real problem from this.
2007-03-09 13:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it...if your friend had too much, it probably only means he's/she's lost his/her inhibitions and wanted to "jump" you all along. If you feel the same way and you are both consenting adults, then go for it.
If your friend is so intoxicated he/she doesn't know where he/she is or what he/she is doing, then he/she probably can't perform anyway.
In the morning if you are both mortified, you will both part and never say another word. If you are both happy, you'll jump each other again, soon if not immediately.
The way i see it, you can't lose.
2007-03-09 13:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by William E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i personally would not fo anything with someone who is drunk..that could just cause bad feelings in the morning. if you are interested in this person let them know..
2007-03-09 13:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never do it the first time when someone has been drinking heavily....friends are supposed to keep you from doing bad things when you are drunk....take the high road
2007-03-09 13:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
for you..? go for it...
hopefully she would be just as happy in the morning...
2007-03-09 14:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you want..but them being drunk might ruin the relationship when they realize what happened
2007-03-09 13:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany h 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I say go for it.
2007-03-09 13:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Li 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋