well im married and im 18 and we argue alot but we dont hitt each other! Should i just wait things out or what! Weve been married almost a year!
2007-03-09 05:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you're arguing about the same issues over and over, then you need to resolve the issues. Couples go though phases where they it will seem like they argue all the time. Get to the root of the issue, don't argue to win the argument, argue to resolve it. You guys are still learning to communicate and really getting to know each other. If you really want the marriage to last, then you will have to work with your significant other.
2007-03-09 05:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got married too young. Maybe you should separate to figure out what you both really want out of life.
If you decide to stay married then maybe some counseling could help. Either way, you need to resolve these issues in order to be happy.
2007-03-09 13:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by JAMES O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling, if that doesn't help and you both are unhappy get a divorce. You are too young to wait it out, or worse yet have children together and then feel like you have to stay together for them. I hope you can work this out so you are both happy, life is too short to not enjoy it all!!!!!
2007-03-09 13:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by install3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly u both r notready for marriage i mean cmon ur 18 ur basically still a child but if u wanna make it work then do sodont just lie backand wait for things to unfold themselves.
2007-03-09 13:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by cassandraajufoh26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋