Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

we only broke up 4 days ago..am i not meant to be happy now... ?
he said he doest love me.. he put me through so much pain
over the last couple of months... i dont know why my heart
aches for him still..why did i love him??
im now single i feel so alone.. its everywhere i go,
we've been there together..reminds me of the fact that
it was never true..when i felt it was.
how can i move on and still stay friends with him..?
im not eating much this week, and i have never felt my
heart beat soo strong ever..this week feels like its dragging
on and on..
everyone tells me to live it up and party but
i know being with other blokes will only make me
realise that my heart is broken...

help i dont know what to do now???

2007-03-07 07:24:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i guess i'm just so into what everyone else wants, and trying to help them understand that they can make it happen. i don't know what i want, because i'm letting others choose the things i want for me. i'm so tired of letting my parents push me around, i want to be the one to choose what i want to do with my life, where i want to live. INCLUDING where i want to go for highschool. but how do i tell them?? i've never been a good socaliser when it comes to family conversations. espeshally with my dad. he makes me do everything i don't want to do. he just puts in all these other options, i just get confused. what should i choose? how can i be able to make my own choices when i don't even know what i want?

2007-03-07 07:24:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-07 07:23:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like as good as it was in your 20s?

2007-03-07 07:23:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

married. is this a common feeling? its not that i wish i married someone else, i just wish i never bothered getting married in the first place. do a lot of guys feel this way?

2007-03-07 07:22:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She left me. The divorce only took 3 months. It has been 6 since the whole thing began. We are still in communication occassionally as our house is up for sale. We both think things might have gone too fast. reconciliation is not in the cards but friendship isn't either. What to do (besides move on, of course)?

2007-03-07 07:22:29 · 7 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my baby's father but he did me wrong? I want to be with him, but why do i feel like the bad guy? he makes me feel like i'm always wrong for everything! What should i do?

2007-03-07 07:21:40 · 6 answers · asked by $Bl@Ck BuTtAfLy$ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:20:36 · 11 answers · asked by Alan D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 18 and my boyfriend is 16 and his parents just found out that we have had sex. Problem is they want to press charges. I dont know what to do and my research on the internet is not helping me out in any way.

2007-03-07 07:20:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

fun fun fun

2007-03-07 07:20:12 · 19 answers · asked by Robin Hip Hop Hoe 4 in Friends

a letter , in person over the phone ? Do I leave while he is at work or do I wait till he is home ? please take a look at my other questions . I am supposed to move this weekend

2007-03-07 07:20:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like ok im i guess "hot" cuz the guys in my skewl come up to me n say that all the time n talk to me n stuff, but all im wondering is y don't any of them ask me out like do they want me to ask them or wat?

2007-03-07 07:20:09 · 11 answers · asked by JellYBeAn 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, i'm doing a survey and i need at least 50 people to answer yes or no to this question:
Do you have a faveorite sibling or child?

Thanks.

2007-03-07 07:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by May 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pretty boys..?
if you look like you should be in an abercrombie magazine why do guys usually try to put down these guys. you never see them making comments about these "rugged" guys.

2007-03-07 07:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:18:56 · 34 answers · asked by laylababy103 2 in Weddings

2007-03-07 07:18:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am 21 and my longest relationship was five months. what might i be doing wrong?

2007-03-07 07:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, me and this girl used to be bestfriends! Since we were like in third grade... We did everything together, When her father died i was there for her, and when my parents split up, and my dad turned into a terrible alcholic she was there for me. She was like the most best person in my life! Well, now we are not even talking. Every since she met this guy, and i'm the one who interduced them. My boyfriend and him were really good friends, and they lived together... I don't know why she is acting like this! We haven't spoke in almost six months, and heven't been really close in like two years... I miss her so much! Everytime i try to ask her what is wrong she never says. Well her and that guy are married now, and i figured the reason she is acting like that is because i have become really good friends with her husbands brother's wife... She is great, but she has been acting this way before me and her sis in law became really good friends.... Should i keep tryin' or leave well alone?

2007-03-07 07:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by *Red Hotts* 2 in Friends

How does a woman steer a conversation from sex, when the guy keeps it so much on his mind? It is like his brains are down below.
Comments please.

2007-03-07 07:17:22 · 27 answers · asked by Cat 2 in Singles & Dating

I cook almost every night for my husband....and it feels like he always has a problem with my food....he says it tasted really good, but maybe the meatloaf was a little too "tomatoey"....or, I'll bring him a burger or a sandwhich, and it's, "I like my buns toasted!" ....Or the meat is a little "on the dry side" A few weeks ago I learned how to make a Rueben sandwich (one of his favs) and he said it was good....but when I went to make it this time, he asked to please butter the bread on the inside, because he didn't like how last time the butter got all on his fingers....this is making me feel like I can't do anything right! Come to think of it.....I even got yelled at this morning for holding the dog's leash wrong(?) so maybe it isn't just the food? It has been like this our entire marriage.... We've been together for over 5 years.....maybe I am just being too sensative....but I kinda feel like a doormat.....?

2007-03-07 07:17:22 · 32 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

U know you love me...

2007-03-07 07:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Robin Hip Hop Hoe 4 in Friends

Thanks.

2007-03-07 07:17:05 · 8 answers · asked by realistnola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i meet three guys on line that want me. and one is my ex he want me back and the other are new guys and none of them no about the other guy. there age are 26 24 22 . not really sure what i should do i told all over them i love them and i don't want to hurt them either

2007-03-07 07:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by asgsj2006 2 in Singles & Dating

I cook almost every night for my husband....and it feels like he always has a problem with my food....he says it tasted really good, but maybe the meatloaf was a little too "tomatoey"....or, I'll bring him a burger or a sandwhich, and it's, "I like my buns toasted!" ....Or the meat is a little "on the dry side" A few weeks ago I learned how to make a Rueben sandwich (one of his favs) and he said it was good....but when I went to make it this time, he asked to please butter the bread on the inside, because he didn't like how last time the butter got all on his fingers....this is making me feel like I can't do anything right! Come to think of it.....I even got yelled at this morning for holding the dog's leash wrong(?) so maybe it isn't just the food? It has been like this our entire marriage.... We've been together for over 5 years.....maybe I am just being too sensative....but I kinda feel like a doormat.....?

2007-03-07 07:16:04 · 27 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's difficult being single. People are strange, strange creatures aren't they. Even at my age I fin hard to talk to a guy that doesn't resemble a character on "America's Most Wanted" or is actually close to you type. I tried all the usual routes but I don't want to go to a bar I don't want to meet a degenerate drinker and smoker. It's fine to do casually but never all the time. So some help for this single gal would definetly do me som justice.

2007-03-07 07:15:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can people tell me how they cope with loneliness and how they survive it ?

2007-03-07 07:15:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what can you know about someone just from looking at them?any clues,like if they have a big thumb they are such and such....
things like that ,and are these stories true.know how they dress and acts says things but im looking for other things.

2007-03-07 07:15:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 2 months, my husband is from Italy, where his parents still live, however he hasn't told them that he is married. He also has an ex girlfriend that he still talks to, and he hasn't told her either. In fact his only friends that know are the ones that live in the area where we live. He says he wants to tell his parents in person. His parents know that I am his girlfriend, his ex girlfriend I doubt even knows about me. Is this just italian culture? I feel like I am a secret, and don't like it. It makes me question my husbands intentions.

2007-03-07 07:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by Seasidelover23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 14 years broke up with me on new years eve. I still love him, but I know that the relationship has run it's course. Years ago we had broken up for a year and a half, and he was seeing someone else. But then we got back together, he dumped her to come back to me and our kids. Now he is back with her again. I have been ok with the break up. Like I said it has run it's course. But when I found out he was back with her, I just lost it! I really don't know why. I'm sure that I am hurt, especially because he already is with someone. Maybe I am jealous because he is not having to be alone, meet new people, and date. Which I hate doing. I don't want to hate him. but right now I am. Why do you think I freaked about him going back with her when I know the relationship is over? Is that normal?

2007-03-07 07:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce