Can people tell me how they cope with loneliness and how they survive it ?
2007-03-07 07:15:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go to church. it is a great start to become more social. also people will not talk about you in front of you. Also you will know that someday you will grow up and be someone. When you get a job that normally 8 times out of 10 makes you more social as well. Dont worry about school people because most will try to fit in Wait Till They Grow Up!! Also ask yourself why you feel lonely or why you feel left out. This wont be just get a little more envolved( this goes for me as well)- Well GooD Luck GoD Bless
2007-03-07 07:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no expert, but maybe if you take some classes involving things you like, you'll find some friends. That way they'll like the sames you do and you can ask them where they live and things like that if you become really good friends. I take art classes outside of school and I have a friend in that, but not my best friend. I also do Irish dancing, which i have several friends in. The good thing is you can ask them about themselves to start out, then you don't have to talk about just what you're taking a class in, you can talk about movies, music, celebs, and shows or just things like that.
Hope I helped you find what you were looking for! Good Luck :)!!!
2007-03-07 15:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by irish_dancer121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, the only friend I have is my boyfriend. I get through it by doing what I enjoy the most, without worring what someone else would think or do. I spend time with my family, I work a lot, and am trying to figure out what college to finish my degree at once I sign with a new agent.
2007-03-07 15:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_chic6944 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about keeping busy i think. There's lots to do. Dont sit there and wait for a friend to call. Get some hobbies - sing, write, organize, clean....something. That way you'll have something to talk about when one of your (few) friends calls.
Good luck!
2007-03-07 15:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most lonely people get lots of friends online. If you are to shy to walk up to people in your neighborhood just get lots of people online. Or if your not shy do somting cool, like if your in school do somthing your really good at and make sure everyeone sees it . Ex: doing magic tricks, or singing, or street dancing
2007-03-07 15:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by ecko_mr.bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a tough one the way to deal with any problem is to try to sort it out so try and sort out this lonliness which u can do by doing things people around u do and going to places they go and u hopefully will have loads of friends soon
2007-03-07 15:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by classy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go join a group or a church. You don't have to be lonely.
2007-03-07 15:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by lyllyan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cannot deal with it any more
2007-03-07 15:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋