Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

Okay, so i've been with my fiance for almost five years. I would say our relationship has gone pretty well, but lately we've been getting into really big fights, and he always has a bad attitude. He snaps my head off for anything I say, he's just always mean.
We do have two children, and we are great parents to them, we give them lots of love, and they don't ever see us fight. I guess my concern is that he's only staying with me for the childrens sake, and I don't want to live like that, is this a stage a guy goes through? Is he feeling like he's missing out on something, is he waiting for me to break up with him? I'm confused and talking with him just leads to another fight. What do you think? If you have any negative comments about me, please don't respond.

2007-03-07 07:32:48 · 5 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her parents are super strict and they never give her a chance to speak her mind about anything. They never give her the chance to do anything. They pick and choose her friends for her, basically what she wears and everything she does. Even the sports she does and her extracurricular activities at school. She wants to talk to them about giving her more options to do things in her own, after all, it is HER life, not their's. Are there any ways to go about this in a GOOD way, so her parent's don't automatically go "no" and don't even let her express her feelings? How would some of you guys go about this? What would you guys say?

2007-03-07 07:32:22 · 13 answers · asked by Angel*Eyesz 3 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months. And I know that's not alot. But I love him and he loves me alot. He calls me everyday, and we can talk on the phone for hours about absolutely nothing. We don't spend as much time together as I would like too. But that just makes the time we do spend together, that much sweeter. I love him dearly, but not being able to spend time with him is so hard... Will we make it through this?

2007-03-07 07:32:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend just had an argument.....He is going away with his mates traveling the country...thats a diffrent story though....
Anyway me and him got in an arguement about something soo pathetic....I'm a month pregnant and we are thinking about getting married when he gets back....Do u think its really over? Should i go to say i'm sorry before he leaves town?

2007-03-07 07:32:02 · 10 answers · asked by Dougie♥Poynter_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an 11-(almost 12) year-old niece, and lately she has been very concerned about boys. Now she has a young crush who says he likes her and wants to ask her out on a 'date'. I told her that she is too young for this sort of thing and that her and her little boyfriend should just be FRIENDS, and she threw a fit. I tried to calm her down, and at that minute MY boyfriend came to call! She called me an a** an told me it wasn't fair-how come I get a boyfriend? I'm 19!!
Now I have a problem. Her mother (my sister) says it's just a phase, but I saw some things in her diary that made me concerned (I won't mention them here).
So I need your opinion....too young? or am I just being overprotective?

2007-03-07 07:31:48 · 16 answers · asked by sonder 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 and very rarely approached by men. I have been told that I'm cute and dress well. I am intelligent and have a sense of humor. Also a big sports fan. Usually when I'm out with friends I am having a good time so its not like I am acting like a b****. What is going on? I don't have a problem approaching them. Its just nice to have them come to you sometimes.

2007-03-07 07:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

do you believe in happily ever after?

2007-03-07 07:31:26 · 20 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your ex. (the one you love) comes back into your life, and wants you back? in this case your with someone else that you care for now, but yet he wants you to drop everything to be with him! what do you do in this case????

2007-03-07 07:31:18 · 13 answers · asked by chichona 1 in Singles & Dating

iam falling in love with very hotttttt guy since we were 12 or15 he used to treat me like a friend & tell me about other girls he liked now after 6 years imet him &am still in love with him and he said that he thinks he will get married to one of my close reletive but he did not tell her yet when i just think about it i cry.IDON NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ........

2007-03-07 07:30:20 · 14 answers · asked by linda a 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my freinds like have this thing with making fun of me. Its kinda like bullying, but I feel like im just a big laughing stock. They get mad at me when I get mad and stuff. I dont know what to do, because I feel like I cant trust anyone enough to talk to. Sometimes they can be really cool freinds, but I wonder if its me. I mean, idt be different if we all made fun of eachother, but I'm always the outkast! and to quit the freindship is out of the question!

2007-03-07 07:30:07 · 21 answers · asked by Angelbaby 4 in Friends

i got reconected with a guy i went to school with many years ago it s been 2 months now and he only calls me about 4 times a month or so,yet hes constantly asking to hang out with me.this bothers me a bit because i kinda feel he doesnt deserve to spend time with me if he cant make a better effort to contact me.he actually made a comment about visiting me often and im wondering how he figures hes gonna do that,when he doesnt even call me often? what do you guys think?

2007-03-07 07:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year, and I can't get her out of my head.....What should I do?

2007-03-07 07:29:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I try to talk to my mom... she doesnt listen its like im talking to a wall. I love her... and a lot of times we are close but I cant stand just talking to no one. And then she thinks that im being rude to her when i get mad. What should I do? Please help

2007-03-07 07:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by lena 2 in Friends

my ex-boyfriend and i go to two different colleges 45 minutes away. i just joined a sorority, and am meeting a TON of new people and i feel like i do not want to be missing out on college life if i'm tied down to one person, which is why i broke up with him. we both still love each other and talk everyday, but i just can't be in a relationship right now and he doesn't understand why. what do i tell him and how can i get him to understand?

2007-03-07 07:28:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is he lying? My boyfriend, lyed to his boss from work and told him at noon he had to get off of work to bring me to the hospital..but the reason he told me he wanted to come home is because he thinks he is spending to much time working and not spending enough time with me. But once he got home, he spent like 5 minutes with me and is now sleeping while i am writeing this to yalll...did he really want to spend time with me or is it just he wanted to come home and sleep. What should i do about it. i woke him up and told him i thought u wanted me to spend time with me...he goes..hmm..o..im sorrie, and went back to sleep...thats all the does is sleep if hes not wokring...and when i want something done by him, he doesn't do it, but when he wants something done, he wants is done right then and there, does he really care, why is he lying to me?

HElp me PLease

2007-03-07 07:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was seperated from my husband and began having relationship with someone that ended I felt some strong feeling for him and think about him everyday even though Im back with my husband...do these feelings go away? If so how long will it take?

2007-03-07 07:27:54 · 28 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my boyfriend for two years and he is the only one i have ever engaged in sex with. however, i never feel the desire to have sex, i never think about or ever feel like i need, i dont feel anything. i dont fantasize about anyone else nor him when it comes to sex. i am in love with my boyfriend, he is the man i see as the father of my children some day. whats wrong with me?

2007-03-07 07:27:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she will not tell me why or my other children. I honestly do not know what I have done to have her fell this wy. My only guess is that she does not like me being with her stepfather.(We have been married 17 years) Hard times started about 1 year ago when I left my husband after I got so depressed I wanted to die. We have gotten alot of professional help since together and as individuals.
She was not happy when we got back together. I don't know if I should honor her wishes to wait for her to contact me or just keep trying to try to talk to her? She asked me in Dec. to not connact he and that when she felt like talking she would call me, and that as an adult she could pick who she wanted to have relationships with. I love her and miss her and my granddaughter, Any advice???? I am afraid to make this even worse and truley would do anything to make this better between us if I knew what. Do I give her, her space to work it through and honor her request or should I try to contact her?

2007-03-07 07:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK um in math today i went to blow my nose. and i THOUGHT that i wiped my nose and i didnt<=_=>. so i walked back to my desk and 1 kid told another kid and another and another,ect,
that i had a buger on my nose. so how do i deal with the people who will make fun of me(no violence). and at lunch their are a couple of kids who call me gay. and i am not. how do i deal with them to?(no violence)

2007-03-07 07:27:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm christian and have learnt that when a friend asks you for something you must give double to him, but it's quite hard for me because I feel like I'm being used,what can I do to cope?I've already reminded them about the money once and don't want to do it again.
thanks

2007-03-07 07:27:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-07 07:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by sh*tsngiggles 2 in Friends

My brother is 22 years old. 2 years ago he told my parents he had social anxiety disorder so my mom took him to the doc. He has been labled with depersonalization and OCD ( but with obssessive thoughts not behaviors). Anyhow, this all started his second year in college after he had trouble fitting in and was doing drugs, etc. My mom is sure it is schitzophrenia because an aunt has this. She just won't let up that she is right on her diagnosis. The last two docs they went to diagnosed her with the same OCD my brother has because she obsesses on his problems so much and babies him and told her they did not want to see her anymore. He is so disrespectful and comes to my sister and my house at least 3 times a week, he eats us out of house and home and has ill manners. We have said things subtly to him, but he continues to ignore what we ask. She will not even make him work, go to school, do housework, etc. My parents can't afford to continue supporting him financially. What do I do?

2007-03-07 07:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by bookworm 1 in Family

out of full honesty, if you had to pick one what would you rather have on a guy? A sense of humour OR a total muscle package with six pack abs and everything?

According to what I know both is perfect, but what is better?

2007-03-07 07:26:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not talking like a normal kiss on the lips, like an open mouth kiss

2007-03-07 07:26:23 · 5 answers · asked by thefish-k 2 in Singles & Dating

samck a guy across the face, which hand did you use and what was the reason for it? i got it from her right hand but it was a bogus reason though.

2007-03-07 07:26:19 · 3 answers · asked by maracana 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:25:53 · 26 answers · asked by lady_active1 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for quit some time now an its getting old. im just wondering if there is anyone out ther for me or am i gonna be alone for the rest of my life

2007-03-07 07:25:42 · 12 answers · asked by Matt C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl i like and she got off with a boy when she was going out with another kid?

It sounds so bad but it's not she just hated going out with this wrist cutting spliff smoking emo so any way i loved her for 2 years and i do again what should i do?

2007-03-07 07:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by niall p 1 in Singles & Dating

hi guyz :-) i was wonderin if ther's ne1 who's interested in practisin english i need 2 do it cuz i'ma do sum exams, i naw i'm very good @ it but i'm afraid az well that i cudn't pass even if all my friends n teachas told me i will :-( pls let me naw if u'r interested in it- i can talk in italin 2 if sum1 wants 2 practise italian :-) Vanya

2007-03-07 07:24:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends