I'm 26 and very rarely approached by men. I have been told that I'm cute and dress well. I am intelligent and have a sense of humor. Also a big sports fan. Usually when I'm out with friends I am having a good time so its not like I am acting like a b****. What is going on? I don't have a problem approaching them. Its just nice to have them come to you sometimes.
2007-03-07 07:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
god !!!!u sound like such a desperado....
2007-03-07 07:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly my problem too. Some tell me that I'm very cute and pretty, plus that I'm smart and funny. But rarely men are attracted to me. I don't wanna beg for their attention or try to look sexy. I believe it is men that should come to women and beg their attention, so bcoz of this principle, I sometimes truly seek someone comes to me. The worst part is when I like someone but he doesn't in reverse, in that situation i can't do anything! I have kind of personality that would never ever take the first step in a date or love relationship. therefore it is really suffering when my loved one ignores me :(
2007-03-07 15:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys feel intimidated by a girl's looks. If they think that she is the most beautiful girl he has ever seen, he might hesitant about asking you out because he thinks that you may turn him down. Next time you catch each others eyes, do some across the room flirt to show him that you are interested and that you won't bite.
2007-03-07 15:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably intimidated by you. If you're pretty, intelligent, funny, nice, etc., that can really scare a man. They're most likely just afraid to approach you. You may have to do the approaching more, which stinks, but that's probably what you'll have to do. Good luck, anyways!
2007-03-07 15:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya jen
i can tell you that us lads love girls approaching us :]
but as to your "problem" the best thing to do is to let a guy kow that you are interested in him. If you look over at a guy and smile, he is more likely to come over and talk to you.
x
2007-03-07 15:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by smiffler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they proboly are shy to ask u
u proboly come off as "un attainable"
make go out on ur own once in a while instead of always with friends
ull proboly get asked more
2007-03-07 15:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are Dumb...First off But i think that now in days they want us to approched them bc there more nervise...But if you go out and you are feeling some guy and you want him to come up to you. Just make eye contact to know that your looking at them....Then they should approced.
2007-03-07 15:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dressing a little more casual, id approach ya but im looking for my little lulu, that is unless you want to be my little lulu, do ya
2007-03-07 15:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act more single and party a little harder is all i can say hit the clubs and stuff or try online, it worked for me
2007-03-07 15:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may find you a bit intimidating!
2007-03-07 15:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋