i got reconected with a guy i went to school with many years ago it s been 2 months now and he only calls me about 4 times a month or so,yet hes constantly asking to hang out with me.this bothers me a bit because i kinda feel he doesnt deserve to spend time with me if he cant make a better effort to contact me.he actually made a comment about visiting me often and im wondering how he figures hes gonna do that,when he doesnt even call me often? what do you guys think?
2007-03-07 07:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you call him? If you don't also initiate contact he may assume that you're not into him and therefore may not want to seem overbearing and call too much.
2007-03-07 07:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a shy guy , he probably spends alot of time planning his calls to you and when he runs out ofhis planned conversation its another week or two before he builds up the nerve and conversation to call again. remember there is no rule who initiates the the first move to any situation. don't play games
2007-03-07 07:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by doc adams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeming that i am a guy you should really give this guy a chance. He is a guy and key word: guy . He is trying his best he he might not can contact you all the time. He might have other things to do. So try to understand him.
2007-03-07 07:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you wanna spend time with him? If you do- phones go both ways, ya know? Call him and tell him to get it together, or you're not hanging out with him..
2007-03-07 07:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
ask what his intentions are
and tell him if hes not going to make the effort to talk to u ur not going to either
2007-03-07 07:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure
2007-03-07 07:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by aaq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋