2007-03-07 07:25:53 · 26 answers · asked by lady_active1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you're asking this implies that you're actually allowing a chance for him to mess with you. If your EX already has a partner than he's obviously just using you on the side for "booty calls". On the other hand, if it'll meet your "needs" and you have no emotional attachment to him, than it's your choice.
But as a no-brainer, tell him to GET LOST!
2007-03-07 07:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. He is just using you and because of that you might end up getting hurt. Just because you have no connection to his new partner doesn't justify it and trust me, if you think that this means that he still has feelings for you or that you two might get back together, you are oh so wrong. He has one thing on his mind and beyond disrespecting his current gf by trying to cheat, he is disrespecting you even more by his assumption that he can use you for sex only. If you have feelings for this person, don't allow him to manipulate them to fulfill his own selfish needs. Respect yourself and show him that you worth more. He is a scumbag and I hope that you do not make a mistake that will cause you not only a lifetime of regret but also a world of pain.
Take care and good luck.
2007-03-07 07:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, but the bigger question is are you single. if so, then go for it, you just might get your ex back. but if you have a partner now, stay away from your ex, your current girlfriend doesn't not need a player
2007-03-07 07:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost (using much stronger language).. then call your ex's new partner and tell them what your ex wants to do..
2007-03-07 07:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with a guy I used to like named Jermey. But I have a boyfriend that i love now so i said no and i am not going to cheat on my BF with him
2007-03-07 07:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by get_high_and_hope_it_gets_u_by 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like trouble, then go for it. However, your ex, by trying to mess with you, is telling you something loud and clear: he thinks you are just a piece of A.S.S.
2007-03-07 07:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it feels like if you do it it would keep yall last little bit of relationship that you do still have together there but be strong and don't do it because then he'll be getting the best of both worlds good luck and make the right decision
2007-03-07 07:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't mess with him ... if he wanted to be wit you for real then he would have done it when he had the chance...not now when he has another partner
2007-03-07 07:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by pinkbabiesr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must let them know your serious that your not going to be the other woman and that your relationship is over for a reason!
2007-03-07 07:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS ON YOUR EMOTIONAL STATE WHERE YOUR EX IS CONCERNED. IF THE SEX WAS GOOD AND YOU CAN EMOTIONALLY HANDLE BEING THE "OTHER ONE" AND NOT THE "ONLY ONE", THEN BY ALL NATURAL MEANS....GO AHEAD!!!
BUT IF YOU ARE STILL IN LOVE WITH THEM AND HAVE EVEN THE SLIGHTEST DOUBT THAT YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HANDLE IT, THEN DON'T DO IT.
2007-03-07 07:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋