Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

me and this guy have been friends for a while and i like him alot and he's just now starting to understand that what he does and how he talks to other females isnt right (hes a BIG flirt !! ) and now he says he loves me and that he doesnt like doing that any more . (he sayin this on his own i never said anything bout my feelings for him) and we talk about EVERYTHING so we like best friend and i want to dedicate a song to him perferably by a female r&b artist so if you have any suggestions ... THANX

2007-03-07 08:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha G 1 in Singles & Dating

why would they think that. I think men that think that are cowardly and I also think that men need to express how much they love women. God forbid but what if all straight men that didnt express their love about women lost the women to a disappearance. This is something to think about for the guys that think I am gay when I am not.

2007-03-07 08:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u laugh and smile at someone... do u like them
even if u had something bad happen between u and that girl???

2007-03-07 08:01:46 · 13 answers · asked by luv 2 shop! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a stay at home mom of a 3 and a 4 yr old. Hubby usually works late hours which means housework and childcare on my part from the time I get up till we finally crash at bedtime. I have no problem with that. But, Monday night he doesn't come home until after we're all asleep because he says he was at his dads helping him work on a motor home. Then last night when he gets home he decides he wants to go to the grocery store. Then we eat supper as soon as he returns from the store. Then he says he wants to go visit his grandfather in the nursing home right up the street from where we live. I'm ok with all this, but when he gets home I ask him to give the kids a bath and get them ready for bed so I could clean up the dishes and everything else, he says sure, but all he does is fall asleep on the couch. I can't help but wonder if hes just doing these things to avoid me and the kids. Am I being petty??

2007-03-07 08:01:26 · 18 answers · asked by Wanda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sixteen, I've never had a boyfriend, have been kissed only once, and have never had anyone fancy me... ever.

I'm not hideously ugly - honestly, I'm a size 8/10 (English sizes... in American sizes that's 4/6) and people always tell me I'm really pretty... not my friends, strangers and stuff...

I don't think I'm gorgeous or anything, but I'm certainly passable looking, and I don't understand why no one likes me...
I am quite outspoken, but try to be polite and nice to people, I just don't understand it.

Am I just a freak destined to be alone forever or something?

It's really getting me down... has anyone else had the same sort of experience? Or is it just me?

2007-03-07 08:01:05 · 18 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Singles & Dating

My business partner, best friend, roommate and sometimes lover will not discuss what do do if he were critically ill or if he should die. I think it should be in writing and that I should have access to it. I do not know the location of his will, or who his executer or administrater is, nor has he made provisions to continue to pay his share of our expenses, even if only temporarily. He has blood relatives who live distantly and are not known for the kindness and caring they extend to their elderly or sick family members. He has NO children. We are fast becoming elderly and have been together since our early 40s. I told him if he continued to refuse to confide in me I would not notify his next of kin if he died giving them the opportunity to walk all over me with their hand out. I think he is being thoughtless. Is the position I am taking outrageous?

2007-03-07 07:59:47 · 4 answers · asked by hello_ms_moore 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

To me, this is terrible, frustrating, lets me really down. He's 15 and I know he's a good boy, but is going through a difficult phase. I don't know why he lies so much. Unfortunately now it's hard to trust him.

How can I deal with this and change him without destroying our relationship forever? I was a teen too and I know how hurtful it is for a teen to know his parents don't trust him or her anymore. I know this is devastating, so I want to do something to show him it's not worth lying and breaking promises, that I'm disappointed and that this fatally has hard consequences. But I don't want to break his spirit and so I want to let him know that I still love him and he'll have my trust back if he sincerely decides to change.

2007-03-07 07:59:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It doesn't matter if you are married or not - sometimes I just want to pack up and leave as it seems I am an unpaid maid. Do you think Men (in a live in situation) overall don't see the negative effect on the relationship? Or are they happy to be lazy until we get fed up and leave or pick a fight? How do you handle this, and has it worked or was it a short term fix?

2007-03-07 07:59:23 · 24 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

umm my brother has a friend and hes hott
so i was buying pickles and then i saw my bffl so i sed hi and they sed hi and then we went to my house
so the next day we went to a movie and my friends bf was there and they sat together and stuff and then i relized that we lost one of friends in the snack line
what did i do wrong?

2007-03-07 07:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Friends

see i went out with my best friend brother and he was older than me. one night i was on the phone with hem and all of a sudden my friend said he was past out. then she started to cry. then she hung up the phone. the next day she called me and said he had died. all o a sudden i broke out in tears.

why do the things that you've always long for and finally get it just dissapear and your left to deal with all the pain.

2007-03-07 07:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my buddy he was a good singer only to have him BOOED at an open mic last night. He does suck, by the way.

2007-03-07 07:58:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My sex drive is going crazy. I can't get enough and I'm afraid that I'm going to get a reputation as a s l u t. I lost my husband after 19 years and now ever since I started dating again I end up doing it with almost every man I date. It's like I'm some kind of nympho or something. I'm 47 years old and I've never been like this before. What is happening to me?

2007-03-07 07:58:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am unhappily married with 3 children, 6, 7 & 13 yrs old. I stay in the marriage because my kids need me, and I don't want to see my wife get our kids after a divorce and then neglect them. My wife and I work full time, but I do most when it comes to our home & kids. I give our children attention and affection they need that my wife won't. Our 13 year old is from a past relationship, so I don't have a legal right to custody. I've taken care of her since she was 4, but her biological father wouldn't let me adopt her. I don't want to break up the children, so I stay in a miserable marriage.

Another reason I stay - my parents divorced when I was young. My mom moved and I didn't see or talk to her for several yrs. My dad became an alchoholic and ignored me, so I raised myself, but with many emotional scars that still remain. I fear that my children will be hurt more by a divorce, like me, than if I stay. I don't want them to lose either parent, so I stay for them. What do I do now?

2007-03-07 07:56:49 · 30 answers · asked by JAZ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 07:56:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i want to ask the class clown to my senior prom. what would be a creative/cute/funny way to do it? when should i do it? the prom is on april 28th

2007-03-07 07:56:25 · 3 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for 9 months. We are in love, we are also seriously thinking of getting married. I am pregnant (please dont leave any nasty comments abou that) and we are buying a house together. We got in an argument and he walked out on me! I really miss him, and we havent talked in 1 week. I'm not sure if hes gone forever. Would you ever break up with someone if you were in my situation?

2007-03-07 07:56:07 · 6 answers · asked by Dougie♥Poynter_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend - lets call her Becky - was really nice to me and my other friends. The keyword there is WAS. Now she acts all snobby. At lunch I'll be talking to my friend - Linda - and Becky will be like "omg what are you talking about? TELL ME!" If I don't tell her she'll yell at me and keep bugging me about it. And when I talk to her in an IM she yells at me alot. Then she's like "I have no idea what you are talking about. If you think I'm being mean then FINE. BLOCK ME!" And if I say something like "Hola" she won't stop saying it. So then if I say it alot people will say that I'm copying her, which I don't want to. I don't like her very much, but she still thinks we're "BFFs" What should I do? My other friend - Linda - is mad at Becky too! Becky was mean to Linda. We don't want to be mean and be like "go away". I don't know what to do! Please help!!!

2007-03-07 07:55:56 · 16 answers · asked by Samantha 4 in Friends

so i have been best friends with this guy for 5 yrs and we have both liked each other and now im ready and he is ready to take it to a new level is this a good idea or not

2007-03-07 07:55:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

direction catching him in the nick of time turning his head quickly away. Why do you think he's doing this? If he's seated forward I noticed sometimes that the side of his face would be keenly flushed whenever I enter an area where he's sitting. Yet, as I tell you, all he seems to not be interested. I've called him more than once and he has not returned my call. But when I catch up with him and ask him about not returning the call he seems to have a reasonable explanation making it alright. Am I seeking the inevitable from this individual? Help me out here please!!!

2007-03-07 07:55:16 · 2 answers · asked by qtediva 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im dateing a boy from my church that i have known for a year and a half and he always hides his face with his hand when im around and he doesn't talk to me that much in person but he talks a lot on the phone and throw texts. and we have been dateing for about a month and he hasn't kissed me or hasn't given me a hug. and i tell him that i love him and he doesn't say any thing. sometimes he says it back. but i just dont know what to do? and theres this new person at are youth and she likes to flirt with and i asked him if he liked her and he told me N/A.
what should i do cause i love him very much?

2007-03-07 07:55:12 · 2 answers · asked by cowgirl07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:54:50 · 3 answers · asked by grandpaza_scatlover6969 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that europian girls look in a boy for looks and american girls for personality (more).

2007-03-07 07:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by Albania 1 in Singles & Dating

mine was the e-mail I just sent to heavydutydic...LMAO

2007-03-07 07:54:28 · 16 answers · asked by TJ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:54:03 · 1 answers · asked by hpygrl582 1 in Family

i like this girl how do i get her to like me if she dont

2007-03-07 07:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Imagine that you dated someone for 9 months. He broke up with you once because he thought you cheated. You worked it out. You had other issues and by the time he broke up with you again, because he again thought you were cheating, you didn't care anymore and were glad to be done with it.

Three weeks later there is another guy that you have known for a while and you like him very much. He likes you very much. You told him about your previous relationship and all of a sudden he is getting cold feet because he feels that you might be on the rebound and this scares him. You understand, but at the same time, you feel that you are not on the rebound and you don't want to lose this guy, because he is one of the most amazing people you have ever met.

What do you do? Is it possible to be over a nine month relationship so quickly?

2007-03-07 07:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And my girlfriend has found out about the second time. She does not know it was twice. Now she says I can
now forget being with her. What are some things I could do and say to get her back and resolve the situation?
Should I tell her about the first time I was with the woman
just in case she finds that out too?

2007-03-07 07:52:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 07:52:34 · 1 answers · asked by DJ Wrigth 1 in Singles & Dating

just 4 fun my friends and i are going out on friday night with the intention of stepping up to guys. we r normally reserved and wait 4 the guys to come up to us but we want to do something different. any. not necessary lines but how do u stike up conversation other than hi or can i buy you a drink. no silly answers as such would be penalized

2007-03-07 07:52:26 · 7 answers · asked by snowflakes 4 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my exboyfriend over 2 years ago and suddenly i'm getting mail for him. He's never lived with me, and the only mail i get for him is auto insurance quotes. How did they get my address and why am i getting his mail?

2007-03-07 07:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by sassycat 1 in Friends