Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

so this guy that I like has been showin some mixed signals. He talks in a "flirty voice," he turns around to talk to me all the time, shows off his grades to me, teases me and then starts being really nice, thinks of lame excuses to talk to me like tell me the time, he tries to make me laugh and a bunch of other stuff but ya get the idea.

anywayz

today he sits somewhere else and does his work there the entire period and kinda sorta glanced at me but only like twice and not that long either. He didn't say one word to me today and usually he talks to me all the time. I have no idea why!!!!! I've said nothing nor done anything that I can think of

what does this mean???!?!?!?!!

help me i am thoroughly confuzzed!!!!

2007-03-07 08:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by lovin' it 6 in Singles & Dating

My husbands become a mean and bitter person. He isnt physically abusive or anything, just unpleasent. We barely talk, or have sex. All it seems like he's interested in is video games and stupid yugio cards. Ive tryed to get into this stuff for him, but its just too childish. I can sit and play a video game for a little while, but he plays literatly 8 hrs in a row sometimes. He belittles me when we have arguments, hes sarcastic, and honestly i dont even know why i stay around. im scared of being alone, at the thpught of dating and being single, of taking my daughters daddy away. Things arent bad every day but it seems theyre getting close to that. I dont think he cares about how i feel, i think hes selfish. we only have sex if HE wants it...i probably should have left, but therwas a reason we got married, and i dont particularly believe in divorce. Has anyone else gone through this? Is there hope? Or should i just give it up and move on?

2007-03-07 08:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and then after a short time apart you got back together and worked things out?

2007-03-07 08:19:27 · 17 answers · asked by andy a 1 in Weddings

2007-03-07 08:19:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

2007-03-07 08:18:52 · 2 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Remember, I am younger than him. How can I also get him to stop swearing at me? He is very lovable sometimes and sometimes he is so dumb that he just laughs uncontrolably for a small silly joke. PLEASE give ideal suggestions!

2007-03-07 08:18:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 08:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

...........5 months 2 go, and I want a whole new look, but I don't want him upset.........what 2 do?

2007-03-07 08:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Weddings

i know this is an odd question, and both parents are pretty darn important.....but which one is more important? we all think mother when i say that....but those who know say that a father is vital to a daughters self worth in relation to men and boys need a strong ,male role model to avoid being on maury in 16 years denying praternity of his 5 kids. assuming both are good parents,once an for all, whose more important, mommy or daddy?

2007-03-07 08:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

2007-03-07 08:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Singles & Dating

im a chinese, we believe that destiny has been decided before the birth.nd some so called fortune teller could tell u almost everything mite happen in ur life. okay, i did it once, nd that person told me that i would be successful in my career in the future, however, my love life is full of trouble. i didnt rly believe that, until now, im 17, everyone around me has bfs or gf...except me...im not ugly at all.should i belive in my destiny?

2007-03-07 08:17:34 · 4 answers · asked by monroe 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf of a year and i are engaged.We started dating on and off in highschool a little.We have a bit of an age gap he is 22 yrs and i am 19 yrs old.I really love and care for him but he is acting more and more like a jerk who i dont even know.The two of us attend the same school.His parents pay his tuition and give him a monthly allowance so he has no need to work.My parents pay for my tuition as well but i work for some of the year spring-summer to pay for books , ness, and to put into savings.He quit the internship he got because he wanted more money and said it was boring.Now he is up to illegal stuff not sure what i think fraud or stealing but he is making 1,000 dollars a week with no known job?I am afraid he is going to get caught but he says he never will because he is too smart for that.

2007-03-07 08:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Maggie R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out".

2007-03-07 08:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some serious help reguarding my family. 1st of all I am divorced with a 7yr old daughter. About a year & a half ago, my boyfriend/fiance moved in w/us. He also has 2 children of his own, which we have been raising together. The problem is that this has been EXTREMENLY overwhelming for me. Suddenly I have 3 kids to take of. He helps, but not as much as I need him to.

2007-03-07 08:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by mina 2 in Family

Ok, so I have a problem with my dad, well actuall mom and dad but anyways umm it's like this. Im 17 (as of today) and I have been living with my dad for 6 years now since my parents divorced, and my mom hasn't paid her child support (only $175.00 for me and 2 brothers) since May of '04. My dad has been getting me to ask her for it when that is clearly HIS responsibility. I'v been under that pressure for years. He's also very controlling and doesn't exactly "care" about ones feelings. Long story short, how do I tell him to quit putting me in the middle of HIS battles between him and my mom? It's getting serious, adn I dont know what to do, and moving isn't exactly an option......

2007-03-07 08:16:32 · 5 answers · asked by jesterkitty_4 1 in Family

Im not fat, but i have a little bit more meat. I had two boyfriends in the past but we ended up breaking up. I really want a bf but i feel like guys dont like girls who are not stick thin. Why is that?

2007-03-07 08:16:24 · 26 answers · asked by mangomonster 1 in Singles & Dating

well today i woke up @ 8 in da moring.
and watched tv first i watch nbb then i played my game! then i went outside and jumped on a.
trapalin then i ate ice cream then i took a long swim in da pool then i drowned and dad had to help me from dieing.............
then mom made dinner she made a nice
meatloaf with fresh saliad with bacon bits and ranch dressing and a side of corn and gravy
and mashpotatos ...........it was da most goodest dinner mom ever made oh yeah and me and my older sister stacy fighted over da cotrols
i wanted to watch blues clues and she wanted to
watch that's so raven wind up is dad came and watched football i never win my sister alway's
wins all day i forgot to put shoes on
i went to school with out shoe's
it wasn't that embaressing some people should ry it it's very natural?
any suggestion's

2007-03-07 08:15:42 · 6 answers · asked by cody s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when a guy ur good friends with,gives u all the attention and flirts with u and hits and pinches u all the time. random hugs and cuddles and plays with ur hair but at the same time take the piss out of u...he doesnt like it when i ignore him he gets all hot and bothered about it. i joke sometime and say u fancy me really dont you? and he's like PSSSSSSSSSH dont be silly or in ur dreams and and when he aks me the same question i always reply in the same manner...everyone round us think we got the hots for each other.

2007-03-07 08:15:27 · 2 answers · asked by oooops! 2 in Singles & Dating

can you have it at a erly age or is it bad

2007-03-07 08:15:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not just physically either, but everything about them. Their personality, demeanor, attitude, ect..

2007-03-07 08:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had a crush on a friend of mine for a long time. Today we had the oppertunity to go out to lunch, so I asked if he wanted to do something together (as friends). He said sure: he picked the restaurant, and he drove the car. Now, here's the thing. We get to the restaurant, we order, and as I have a $20 in my hand to pay for my lunch, he hands the cashier the money and just smiles at me! I said I would pay him back, but he told me that I wouldn't.

2007-03-07 08:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

...but your boyf doesnt want to go, would you still go without him?

2007-03-07 08:13:34 · 14 answers · asked by Java Chip 4 in Friends

I haven't seen him in over a year because he moved away... Now he's at a boarding school in another state. We just recently started talking online again and he's coming back home next week for spring break... I told him I wanted to see him, so he invited me to the movies. I'm not sure what else to do...

2007-03-07 08:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this guy i like named tim is really nice and we hold hands all the time and it really kool but i want to ask him out should i ask or forget about him

2007-03-07 08:13:13 · 10 answers · asked by kari 2 in Singles & Dating

what you girl look for in a boy personality or looks. I understand the both are important but very reraly a guy has both? What would you choose between those two? I look in a girl for personality!

2007-03-07 08:13:00 · 13 answers · asked by Albania 1 in Singles & Dating

where should i take her on a second date any ideas?

2007-03-07 08:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by brasko3001 1 in Singles & Dating

The relationship lasted for four years (we broke up last year), so the only one I've ever been in has been pretty long-term. . .but still, I'm starting to feel a little left behind. All of my friends are getting married and engaged and stuff, and I don't even have the possibility of a relationship on the horizon. Has anyone else here been in the same situation? Are you STILL in that situation, or did you find someone? It's not, like, of utmost importance or anything, but I would eventually like to find someone to spend my life with.

2007-03-07 08:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 08:12:02 · 11 answers · asked by DJ Wrigth 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never had any significant someone in my life. I just want to know how it feels like to be in love. What does feeling in love for the first time feels like? What if you fell in love with somebody and they never return in back. I am not a looser, I just don't have this feeling of "love" to anyone. I don't feel any passion towards someone. How can I make it better?

2007-03-07 08:11:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am not 100% sure that he likes me back but my other friends say that he does... HELP PLZ!

2007-03-07 08:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends