is sex good?

Question

can you have it at a erly age or is it bad

Answer 1

Yes, very good, especially with someone you care about and who also cares about you. Doing it when you are young isn't bad, but your maturity and ability to deal with the consequences improves as you get older.

Answer 2

First off sweetheart, I need to say that I don't advocate that stupid "wait till your married" BS. I believe it is a solely personal decision that should be made when you are completely ready.

Honestly, sex is a 50/50 bet. Some times it's good, some times it's bad. When you get lucky, it's earth shaking, but usually, you go in with high hopes and walk away unsatisfied and most likely faking another orgasm.
Sweety, take it from some one who is probably old enough to be your aunt, if not your mother. Sex is not a good thing if you are young. I was first introduced to sexual contact at age 4 through 11. This contact has scarred me for life. I then willing began again at 13 and honestly, I wish I had held on to that willing virginity, because now, I am with a man that I wish I could give that purity to. I have had life changing experiences, but they mean nothing compared to the pain I feel when I look back on my pitiful first time and cry because I can't give myself to him whole and pure.

Do me a huge favor. Listen to the song S.E.X. by Lyfe Jennings. It's a new song and has a catchy tune. It explains alot about sex. Listen to that first and then make your decision.

And I would like to say finally, that I won't leave this at a simple answer. Anything you want to talk about, be it sex or anything else, feel free to write me. Here on Answers, I'm a bit limited to what exactly I can say and this answer still be viewable. If you message or e-mail me, I can be more frank and state more about how I honestly feel.

Take care sweety, and be safe.

Answer 3

All these people who are telling you that it is never too early to have sex should be shot and pissed on. Sex should be when you are ready with someone you love. When a young girl gets in to a relationship with a guy it is really easy to think you love them and you will be with them forever. If this was true, we would not have as many young single mothers in this world as we do. I can tell you from experience it is not easy being a single mother. I had my daughter when I was 15 years old. It is not easy. Don't forget that as soon as you start having sex you end up with the possibility of becoming pregnant and there is also a possibility of ending up with sexually transmitted diseases. Make your choices carefully. If you stay a virgin until you find the one you love you will have the happiest man in the world. Most men would be very pleased to know that no other man has touched their women. You have a whole life to find out about sex. Don't rush it. Once your virginity is gone you can never get it back.

My best friend always says " You should treat your body like a temple, not a McDonald's drive through. There should not be over 99 billion served.

Answer 4

I wouldn't suggest that you do it before marriage, because there could be consequences. All of these people are on here telling you it's ok if your this, or it's ok if your that. NOO! My cousin got pregnant at 14 and she thought that it was ok. Turns out his condom broke and he had aids. So sex if your young is not a very good thing to do. Now my cousin is regretting that she did it.Now she has aids and is about to have a baby she is not ready to take care of, and then the baby could possibly come out with aids. Everything has consequences. I don't understand what the hurry is to have sex anyway. You should wait until you are married, like the bible clearly says. Be careful, because you never know. I hope you take this advice. Bye

Answer 5

It is good with your husband. Outside of that, there are too many risks involved to enjoy it to it's fullest, especially when balanced out with the inevitable consequences.

But in this day & age, one would never know it, with all the images we are subjected to all day long. Casual sex with whoever you want is projected to be the norm these days.
But just think how it would be if everyone did things the way God origionally intended: no sex before or outside of marriage. How would venerial diseases or AIDS spread? How do you think doing things this way would affect the number of unwanted pregnancies in the world?

I don't mean to sound like a prude, I am just trying to point out that if you want to play, you gotta pay!

Answer 6

You are to sweet to allow yourself to give up the most precious thing you have. Its the one thing you have that you are in control of.Have you ever seen a beautiful rose and then every one starts passing it around and by the time its done man handled then its all wilted and no one wants the rose any more. Look ahead and see your future your in a white gown and and walking down the isle and ready to marry someone really special do you really think its fare for your future husband to have waited for something special and you didn't. No one really wants someone who sleeps around.
save yourself and enjoy school to some thing and make a difference in someone else's life.

Answer 7

It is not good at a young age because you'll have to break up and it will be very hard on you, and then life won't seem as fun anymore. Wait till a later age - when you are ready to have babies.

Answer 8

Sex is one of the most pleasurable things there is, but it is that pleasure which blinds most people to the very serious potential consequnces (pregnancy, disease, emotional turmoil etc.), so it is best to wait until you are mature enough to fully consider the consequences before having sex.

Answer 9

Im female and I did not enjoy sex thoroughly until my mid 30s! I know that sounds old to u I'm sure! lol....but it gets better with age and experience.

Answer 10

Sex feels really good. Maybe not for most virgin women, but for most virgin guys yes. There's no such thing as doing it too early. What you should do is decide if you are ready to give your body to someone you love and trust. If you love that person, then its never too early.

How old are you by the way?