Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out
2007-03-07 08:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like hanging out wasn't all he wanted and when he didn't get it he left. but screw him move on he probably has a girl on the side or something move on sweet heart
2007-03-07 08:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone girl1! He's not worth your time or fustration. If there is something going on, he should be able to have a face-to-face conversation and explain to you thoroughly what is reallly going on. If he does not have the balls to do so, you can walk away with your head up because you know you did everything within your power to give him a chance. Sounds like he's making excuses because it happened repeatedly!
Good luck!
2007-03-07 16:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by sugar_deee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's horrible. Yeah, girl, move on. He's just making excuses. When its time for the two of you to hang out next, don't call him, let him call you. If he doesn't call, then you know your answer. There are plenty of guys out there that don't want to play games.
2007-03-07 16:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm hes a typical male i should know lol hes playing with you i think it was a bit of fun for him the flirting and stuff but i dont think you should bother with him to be honest just leave him be he'll call you if he's that bothered hope u find the right one next time
2007-03-07 16:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by darlolad2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the disappionter.
He took an ego ride on you by setting you up to be the one interested in him! He just wanted you to 'come' after him so he could say... uummm maybe later??!
It's an ugly little ego game... get him back by ignoring him and if he asks you again then tell him... sure, just gimme a call! and when he does tell him.... uumm maybe later? no, I don't date loosers!
2007-03-07 16:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like rejection alright... lol well just give up good thing u were not in a relation ship with him.. dint even bother to call him back and if i was you i wouldn't answer his call either because imagine if he is acting like this and you guys havent gotten to a date yet now imagine if u were to be dating him.. or may b he has a girlfriend and just wanted to play around then he might have changed his mind.. well good luck with everything..
2007-03-07 16:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's clearly distracted and something's up. Let him go and if he comes back, may be consider grabbing a cup of coffee or something. Maybe.
2007-03-07 16:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kailee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! Sounds like he has major problems or he just enjoys the thrill of the chase
2007-03-07 16:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by 3262m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actully last month he put a needle in his head n plucjed the tiny little brain out of his head hes probably found some1else
2007-03-07 16:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. It doesn't seem that he is into you anymore. It wasn't meant to be. He keeps blowing you off. Don't feel rejected, you won't be perfect with everyone you date.
2007-03-07 16:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋