Is he lying? My boyfriend, lyed to his boss from work and told him at noon he had to get off of work to bring me to the hospital..but the reason he told me he wanted to come home is because he thinks he is spending to much time working and not spending enough time with me. But once he got home, he spent like 5 minutes with me and is now sleeping while i am writeing this to yalll...did he really want to spend time with me or is it just he wanted to come home and sleep. What should i do about it. i woke him up and told him i thought u wanted me to spend time with me...he goes..hmm..o..im sorrie, and went back to sleep...thats all the does is sleep if hes not wokring...and when i want something done by him, he doesn't do it, but when he wants something done, he wants is done right then and there, does he really care, why is he lying to me?
HElp me PLease
2007-03-07 07:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is trying to control you! You need to address this asap!! If you don't stop it now it will only get worse.
Good luck!!!!
2007-03-07 07:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by gibbygirl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying to get off of work...especially with an excuse like that isnt so great. if he is tired, and doesnt want to help you out with things, then you need to sit back and look at the ENTIRE picture before making a decision. i dont think its fair to you that he is using you for an excuse, and then not spending time with you. i was in a situation like that and couldnt seem to get it past her that "what about me?" too many guys want a girl that will wait for them and basically shadow them. not saying following his every step. but will be there for him and vice versa. you are giving in too much for him, and if he doesnt do the same for you, something drastic needs to change. so yes, i think he WAS lying and it wasnt for you, it was for him!
2007-03-07 07:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your bf is taking you for granted and you're letting him. So I suggest you quit letting him do that and tell him how you feel and tell him it has to change. If it doesn't--find a good man who will treat you right.
2007-03-07 07:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS USEING YOU AS AN EXCUSE TO LIE TO YOU,HIS BOSS, HIMSELF. OBVOIUS HE IS A LIAR AND HE IS LAZY. DO YOUR SELF A FAFOR, FIND YOURSELF A REAL MAN WHO WILL NOT LIE TO YOU. SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN AND LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU DESERVE. DROP HIM MY DEAR. HE IS NOT A REAL MAN....
2007-03-07 07:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's lazy
2007-03-07 07:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋