What do you do when your ex. (the one you love) comes back into your life, and wants you back? in this case your with someone else that you care for now, but yet he wants you to drop everything to be with him! what do you do in this case????
2007-03-07 07:31:18 · 13 answers · asked by chichona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him where he can go...if he left you once, he'll leave again. If you truly care about the person you are with now, you would not jeopardize the relationship.
2007-03-07 07:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Çåŗőľîņẫ§ħŷġĭ®ł 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did the two of you break up in the first place? It's hard to move on when you still love your ex but you have to do what's right for yourself. If you drop the guy you're currently dating, do you think that the relationship with your ex would be different this time around? Or does he just want you back because you are capable of moving on? How much do you really care about the person you're with now- do you see a better future with him? You have a lot of thinking to do but whatever you decide- again do what's in your best interest and keep the new guys feelings in mind-too! Good Luck! :)
2007-03-07 07:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is stop and think carefully about the situation.
Why did you break up in the first place? You need to ask yourself this because it makes no sense getting together again if the same thing is going to happen all over again.
Has he matured? Have either of you changed in anyway?
If you're satisfied with the answers, then go for it? Let the person you're with now down gently and try again. If this current relationship is not right one, it will end anyway.
2007-03-07 07:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by lokai1701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're happy, and you can't just leave the relationship you're in. Not only is it rude to come barging in your life, but it's immature to expect something so high from you. If you're happy with your boyfriend, then tell your ex. It may hurt him, but you can't drop everything you have for him. Obviously, something in your past relationship drove it to break-up, and you don't want to run into those same problems. Tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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2016-10-17 12:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this boat not too long ago..
I was dating this guy for a while and one night we got in a fight, I can't remember what it was over but i left and he started seeing his ex girlfriend, I realized i made a mistake on walking out on him and tried to talk to him yet he still wanted his ex....Months down the road he had called my friend asking for my number so she gave it to him, he called me and started telling me he made a mistake, he misses me, he loves me, he wants to get married ect..Well i had to break the news to him that i was already married and he tried telling me to leave my husband( the love of my life) for him...I looked at him and i said i asked you to be with me when you were with naomi and you stayed with her, what makes you think i would leave my husband for you? He says cuz you love me, I said No i did love you now i have another man in my life..He started crying and asked if we could be friends still and said he didnt want me leaving his life...He still tries sometimes but i just laugh and say no i love my husband..
2007-03-07 07:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel? Also, why is he your ex? That should definitely factor in.
If you have moved on maybe that is best than to relive a bad past.
2007-03-07 07:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by nursegrneyes2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if her really wanted you he wouldnt of broken up with you unless is was like family problems and other good truthfull excuses..
But If you really love him and trust him to not break your heart agian, Go for it.. But if you know he just wants to play then screw him! G.L
2007-03-07 07:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u can't just drop ur whole life that u worked for just to be with him. tell him if he really loves u that he will wait for u.
2007-03-07 07:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of yourself first, would you drop everything for someone?
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