a letter , in person over the phone ? Do I leave while he is at work or do I wait till he is home ? please take a look at my other questions . I am supposed to move this weekend
2007-03-07 07:20:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have been togather for 7 years . I am 22 and 7 1/2 months pregnant and he is 44
2007-03-07 08:01:23 · update #1
Well I think it depends. If you have been a long relationship then face-to-face. Otherwise, a phone call should do.
"How" to leave? Well if he is prone to violence (you should already be gone), but do it while he's at work. I DID!
If he's smart I'm sure he knows it over anyways.
2007-03-07 07:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suppose to move where? Will you still be seeing him where you move?
Maybe you should just be honest on this one and tell him that you've enjoyed the time you spent together with him and that it ends when you move out. You can tell him over the phone, in person or what your most comfortable with. Put yourself in his shoes, how would you want someone to end it with you? Look at it from all views and then apply it to your own creativity but be honest enough so that it doesn't haunt you later. It is a small world and you could bump into him later in life. Good luck!
2007-03-07 15:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by anabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen your other questions but I do know if you are leaving you should tell your boyfriend to his face the relationship is over and you are moving out if you really mean it. If you are afraid of him then maybe you should just leave.
Good Luck.
2007-03-07 15:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A letter or on the phone is a coward's way out. Unless you are fearful of him, tell him face to face.
2007-03-07 15:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "Dear John" letter is what my mother left my dad. Very effective at conveying a message.
2007-03-07 15:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I knew. If I could pack up and leave in the midnight move, that's what I would do.
2007-03-07 15:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has anger problems don't tell him in person.
But if he doesn't have anger problems or your not scared of him then I'd tell him in person.
Make it simple and to the point.
Tell him the reasons why.
and then leave.
2007-03-07 15:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the standard line provided by the wemen:
I love you but I'm not in love with you = I want to screw other people.
Use this b.s. line
2007-03-07 15:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be a woman about it and just tell him and then just do it why put yourself through a bunch of **** if you can prevent it why hurt yourself along with him good luck
2007-03-07 15:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you like it done to you? Think about that. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Basic golden rule.
2007-03-07 15:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by BrokenOpalAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋