Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

ok so i babysit very often my nieghbors, the ages are 11(girl) , 7(boy) and 4 (boy), i dont know what to do with them any more the 7 yr old always gets out of control and starts beating the other two children. i need to do something with them. they all like soccer and hockey but i cant do that anymore butthey like playstation to but they fight over that soo i need some creative ideas on what to do with them

2007-03-07 09:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by soccerelmo123 1 in Friends

it was in a dark movie theatre, and he was rubbing his foot on a my leg, slowly moving up, but not going past the knee. he's dating someone else.... is this flirting??? Guys?????
thanx in advance

2007-03-07 09:47:50 · 13 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

"The day's just beginning, you see the girl you love, you don''t know what to do or say, you're friends, you talk to eachother everyday, on the phone, computer, etc...you're walking with her, talking, laughing, having the time of your life, the sun hits ya, you smile at her she smiles at you, it's time to say goodbye, you hug and walk off.....you're walking, past places where we played as kids, later you talk to eachother, time's ending, you say you'll see eachother tomorrow, you know what, you're in goddamn love, is there anything else better in the world"

2007-03-07 09:47:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

After a long time of not talking with my ex at all he contacted me and we got to talking. One fo the things he told me was that he was afraid that he would stay alone. He said that he was afraid of never having a daughter, son and a wife.Ok we were thinking of getting married at some point ,and it kinda hurt me that he said this. So why did he tell me this? to hurt me? To throw it in my face that I am not good for him or what? Seriously I am so confused over this little expression.

2007-03-07 09:47:39 · 2 answers · asked by EV 2 in Singles & Dating

Can infatuation turn into nothing? I was completely head over heels for my boyfriend for the first 3 months. He could do nothing wrong and everything he did was perfect.

We have now been dating for about 6 months and I feel as though something is wrong and is missing. I have constant anxiety about "what if i am falling out of love with him." I dont trust myself. I dont know if its because I have been in dramatic/abusive relationships up until now but there is no reason why I could see I would be feeling this way.

All of my friends and family say that I seem most myself when I am around him. They think that this relationship is different from any past ones I may have had…..So I don’t know what that says….

I still enjoy spending time with him and being intimate with him but for the 1st 3 months I KNEW he was the guy I was going to marry and have kids with and now I cant say that anymore....

Am I commitment phobic, is this just my anxiety, or am I really falling out of love with him?

My ex who was a dramatic abusive partner may possibly still have a tiny piece of my heart but its been 2 years so I dont know why it hasnt gone away.

I want to feel the love I felt for him when we were 1st together. Can infatuation just end like that? There is nothing that I can think of that could have possibly changed my feelings?!?!? This is the first guy I actually trust but I feel like i trust him cause maybe I just dont care...I dont know how to tell and I dont want to break up with him......

Thanks!

2007-03-07 09:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

non sexually!!!! I have no problem in that dept. but when she gets home something to drop her jaws!! I already do laundry and clean, cook etc!!

2007-03-07 09:46:10 · 4 answers · asked by blazer620 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is this normal?i need to know if i am being ridiculous/i have a boyfriend who is nice.hardworking,etc..for all appearances faithful..seems to need to REGULARLY..FREQUENTLY incorporate other women from life,movies,videos,comics,tv etc into our (his)romantic time...i don't have an issue with him having the thoughts about it...i don't expect him to focus on me always,but why does he need to express it always?any hints especially from the guys, on how i can nicely ask him to stop?

2007-03-07 09:45:53 · 15 answers · asked by sotiredofit 1 in Singles & Dating

i was shopping and a bloke came over and told me i was really pretty etc and ask me if he could give me his telephone number he seemed ok but i'm just not used to this sort of thing when im shopping, normally only happens when im out at night with my friends, he said i could bring a friend with me if i decided that i would go out with him, for a meal or go see a film or the pub, i was'nt goin to take his number but he saw me getting in my car and put it thru the window

2007-03-07 09:45:39 · 14 answers · asked by demmi 2 in Singles & Dating

there is a boy in my gym class who likes me and i like him and he hugs me and holds me by my waist in front of everyone which i really dont like because it feels awkward in front of everyone so what should i do? like when he grabs me by my waist and stuff do i hold him by the waist or what? guys answers would really help!

2007-03-07 09:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by yakayakayaka1234 2 in Singles & Dating

So, for those of us who are NOT under 17, we probably have a little experience in the way men see women. One thing that I have learned without a DOUBT is that the phrase, "Men: they wanna have their cake and eat it too" is 100% true. So here's what i've concluded. Men have four different categories for a woman. And they are as follows:-----Wifey: irreplaceable...the one who can always be counted on when he needs help. She puts up with BS until she can't anymore. The man loves her, and he opens up 2 her, but he doesn't want to be with ONLY her. At the same time, nobody else is allowed to have her.----Boo: The one who's fun 2 be around, and he knows she's pretty much sprung. She may be around for a few months, but she'll never be wifey. He knows this.-----B*tch: She's the one that's used...not a boo, and DEFINATELY not wifey.----Ho: The one he goes to when he needs to bust a nut real quick. He doesn't waste any real time on her...but he knows she'll take care of b'ness. True?

2007-03-07 09:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Singles & Dating

A few months ago, I thought this guy really liked me, but I didn't really like him back. He started IMing me as soon as I got online and hanging around me more than anyone else and always mentioning me or wanting to know my opinion and he got me a b-day present and included a really sweet note. I was nice back but not forward or touchy (like all the other girls who like him ... and there are many), so I guess he got negative vibes 'cause, well, he ... stopped.

Anyways, recently I started liking him but I can't tell whether he still likes me or not ... and I'm starting to doubt whether he ever really liked me in the first place, because he seems to flirt with a lot of girls. He's really really friendly online but at school he's not as forward. There's this one girl who he's touchy/flirty with, but there's something different about the way he is toward me. It's not touchy ... but it feels more ... genuine. But maybe I'm just deluding myself because I wanna think he still likes me.

2007-03-07 09:44:58 · 9 answers · asked by far away from the cold night air 1 in Singles & Dating

I listen to all types of music andi just got out of a long term relationship so i need some good brake up songs to listen too.

Please give the name of the song and who its by

2007-03-07 09:44:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i think he likes me like he always sits next to me and like we talk and mess around and stuff but he has a girl friend ok and like my friends brother said that he thought i was pretty and that he likes me but ive never met him just talked to him like 3 times on myspace and like should i hang out with my friends brother or like wait for the other guy idk wat to do cause like ok the first guy like notices little things like when im sad and i think thats sweet and like yea i need help but i think this might be pointless cause people are just gonna say he has a gf get over him so w/e

2007-03-07 09:44:32 · 1 answers · asked by Tori 5 in Singles & Dating

I dont want harsh comments or anything i just want to hear what u think (not negatively) Im a smart person A honor roll, junior honors society, ect. but i do have a social life! I started "going with" this guy about 2 weeks ago. I'd known him 4 like three years and i really liked him. Well, Sunday we went 2 church together and spent the day together and one thing led to another. We had sex but i guess u could say we weren't 2 careful about the placing. Somebody saw us and told my big brother and my big brother told my mother and now im in trouble. I dont really regret it but i know it was a really bad choice on my part. Yes it was my first time. And no no protection. Should i really have done that?

2007-03-07 09:44:24 · 27 answers · asked by mz.idunno 2 in Singles & Dating

My aunt has been a story teller since before I was born. She starts lies to get attention and make the family crazy and fight. And before I was born she went around saying my grandfather (her father) raped her. Which I do not believe (because according to her-she was raped by her brother her grandfather and father and my father raped me). But this is my mothers sister and my mother is unable to forgive her or let go of the fact that her sister has made up these lies about her dad and my father and its eating my mother alive because now my grandfather is dieing of alzheimers disease and my aunt will not tell the family she lied. Now that my grandfather is dieing my aunt says she can't remember who raped her. And my mom crys almost every night wanting her sister to clear her dads name and my aunt won't do it. How do I help my mom??

2007-03-07 09:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by libra0484 1 in Weddings

ok there is this boy who is in my grade and ive liked him since last year but idk if he likes me back b/c we are pretty good friends and get along good and i want to make a move on him but every now and theni will hear him talking about other girls. So what should i do make a move and if so what do i say?

2007-03-07 09:43:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay well iv been friends with my best friend for about 10 years. We used to do every thing together and he was also my boyfriends best friend. Was impossible to see eachother for about 3 months and he didnt return any of my calls or messages. Today i found out he has a new girlfriend and that they are gettin married... WE ARE ONLY 20 and he has only know her for 3 months. I sent him a message askin if it was true and he said that yes it was true. I got really upset for him not telling me and getting engaged without her even meeting the people he has grown up with but said that i was happy for him but i just reall think he does not know her enough to marry her just yet. He then went off about how im such an unsupportive ***** and that im just a jelouse cow and i should get over myself... ( HE NEVER EVER SPOKE B4) so i sent him a message back saying Get lost and i cant believe what he just said to me. The girl then sent a msg tellin me to **** off and callin me a *****??? what shud i do

2007-03-07 09:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by Keisha C 1 in Friends

I am 15 years old and slowly growing away from my dad. I need help finding ways to hang out... like activities... thanks.

2007-03-07 09:43:13 · 24 answers · asked by Barbiex3 1 in Family

My best friend is a great person, and my children love her! I asked her to be my kid's godmother and she accepted!! My mom met my friend and my mom hates her. How do I tell my mom without her and I getting into a fight!

2007-03-07 09:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to find out about UK centres that help women who have been violent and abusive towards male partners/boyfriends/husbands. There’s hardly any information out there and it all centres on domestic violence against the male. Would be particularly interesting if a woman who has been violent towards her man could get in contact. Women who have been violent in the past but have overcome this and saved their relationships also would be very helpful. Please help!

2007-03-07 09:42:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

WELL.......I have like this re-occuring dream about this man. Im always grown up in the dream. I can tell that its me, but im older and I can tell that in my dream Im grown up. Im always with this Man, and hes an adult too.. Ive never seen him before, ever, he dosent even look remotely like a guy or adult that I know or have ever seen. In my dream Im useually out to dinner with him or in the car with him, My dream useually happens exactly the same way(exactly)..Except for last night. Last night in the dream I was making what i think was breakfast, and then i turned around and looked at a table full of kids. I cant remember what the children looked like, or how many they were. That has been the furthest it has ever gone...Then I woke up. I would like to know if my dream could possibly be a "prediction" of the future?...Could this be like a glimpse into my future with a family?...Im only fifteen years old..and its no like i have that sort of thing on my mind...Any insight?

2007-03-07 09:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by little miss sunshine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just can't take it any more, I feel horrible, and can't stop cryin, how do I make it go away, or a least make it feel better

2007-03-07 09:40:58 · 32 answers · asked by BeckaM09 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been arguing a lot the last couple of days. well you know when a guy saying he's sorry, he gets flowers, well what should i get my boyfriend to say sorry? something i can get today because he gets home from work in 5 hours. thank you in advance!

please, no immaturity, thanks.

2007-03-07 09:40:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19 years old.

I have been dating my girlfriend for over 1.5 years. The first 1.4 years of this relationship I was very sweet to her, did lots of planning (surprise trip to the zoo, romantic dinner at a cleared out restaurant which I managed to pull of thanks to a friend, and many other occasions) But all of this time I have been hurt because I always felt like she did not make much time for me and that I was not being appreciated. So, in time, I stopped saying that I missed her/ loved her as much, I stopped planning romantic dates, and am still nice to her but don't act as infatuated.

Since this change only now she is the first one to say "I love you" and finally making time to see me more.

Can somebody explain this to me? Do girls subconsciously prefer guys who don't show as much attention?

2007-03-07 09:39:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now before you say go with the one you love more, here's the problem I love them both equally. One is in my country but the one I'm dating isn't... Here's my main problem I being asked to choice between them right now but my girlfriend isn't online and with both of them every time we talk it's obvious there's love involved... The one I'm not dating is asking me to decide now, at least think on it and tell her my choice.. I can't choice between them though.

2007-03-07 09:39:42 · 27 answers · asked by Kylan Incarna 2 in Singles & Dating

I know, I know that I'm combining two big no-nos, but I need some help in how to approach a married woman. We are already very good friends and spend a lot of time together at work, taking lunches and breaks together.
How do you see if she is interested in something more without tanking the friendship or my career?

2007-03-07 09:39:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 22. I haven't dated anyone in about 2 years. And only dated 2 guys. I am in the army and have 2 full time jobs plus school. So I don't have much time for it. But someone asked me out. He is 20 in college plus a part time job.

Any thing that could help me.

Please

Thanks

2007-03-07 09:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently, the one person in my life that I trust, who I think of as a hero, someone who's been better than the common folk, did something that I find really, really foul. Something we both think of as wrong wrong wrong. I'm not going to get into what was done, but I can't see this person the same. Ever. I'm the f-up, this person has always been pure. Always. And I'm so sickened by things that it's actually making me physically ill. I want to forget the whole thing, but sometimes a person just can't. How do you get over such a thing?

2007-03-07 09:38:06 · 9 answers · asked by doesn'tmatter 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok...i told my friend to tell this guy i had a crush on him...my friend came back and told me everything that happened...she said when she had said my name and that i liked him his eyes almost turned into smiley faces just 4 a moment then he asked where i was...now he doesn't usually ask where ppl r...so do u think he likes me? don't say yes 2 cheer me up....P.S. he doesn't like anybody (so he says) and well he doesn't act like he likes me, but a grl can hope!! well...what do u think?

2007-03-07 09:37:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has lied to me about her past, her past include having sex with guys, having oral sex with guys she met randomly at parties and a two year relationship with her ex.

She told me all that after she become pregnant, i cannot accept her now, she lied to me on one of most important factors of life, she also kissed a guy while she was drunk, while she was daing me. I have completely lost any faith on her, we fight every day, i know its bad for kid but i am also going through worst time of my life, life seems worthless to me.

Sometime i tell her i would not accept the kid and walk away she threathened me of taking me to court and sueing me for child support. i do love her but know for sure i cannot accept her as my wife, not even for the sake of kid.

I dont wanna be jerk also, i feel like dyeing, life is so bad, what should i do, i tried to forgive her, but cant i tried to run away from her but cant, there seems no option, please suggest me what should i do, will i be happpy ever

2007-03-07 09:36:42 · 2 answers · asked by dass d 1 in Singles & Dating