So, for those of us who are NOT under 17, we probably have a little experience in the way men see women. One thing that I have learned without a DOUBT is that the phrase, "Men: they wanna have their cake and eat it too" is 100% true. So here's what i've concluded. Men have four different categories for a woman. And they are as follows:-----Wifey: irreplaceable...the one who can always be counted on when he needs help. She puts up with BS until she can't anymore. The man loves her, and he opens up 2 her, but he doesn't want to be with ONLY her. At the same time, nobody else is allowed to have her.----Boo: The one who's fun 2 be around, and he knows she's pretty much sprung. She may be around for a few months, but she'll never be wifey. He knows this.-----B*tch: She's the one that's used...not a boo, and DEFINATELY not wifey.----Ho: The one he goes to when he needs to bust a nut real quick. He doesn't waste any real time on her...but he knows she'll take care of b'ness. True?
2007-03-07 09:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG OMG soooo True how did you now those exact names? bravo
2007-03-07 09:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Arc_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lunasage said it so cynical, she admits she is one of your characters, only she's not a man, she's a woman... So, I guess you could have said that BOTH women and men can be in one of your types of characters...
And I think "lunasage" is a "not wifey"... lol... how about a "ho"?
So, what type are you?
As for me, do not try to put one of your labels on me, you would make a mistake to think something so bad at me. I only treat women like they want to be treated. If she thinks of herself as a "ho" and she acts like one, then I'll treat her as a "ho". If she respects others and she proves integrity, then I'm willing do all I can in my powers to treat her with respect, integrity, love and devotion. I will never trust a profiter man/woman to be my friend.
Read some books if you don't trust me. You'll see most men are not as you think they are. And if you live in some place where men are as you say they are (or as you think they are), then I pity you. Move far away and don't be sorry you move out of that sorry place (or don't move, but look harder).
2007-03-07 18:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a shame that you label people. the truth is you haven't met a non-player yet. when you meet a real man in won't fit in your categories correctly. Most 'men' value themselves and their partners more than any of these characters you describe. A real pity you haven't met one.
2007-03-07 18:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd simplify it...
Longterm - Someone who you just like being around, who you like for them, and they key sign is you don't want to rush sex
Normal - A normal relationship. Guys like this girl, they date for awhile, have sex (depending on how long it lasts and moral views), then after a few months break up.
"Quick 'N Easy" - Someone who is usually ditzy that you find sexually attractive, and you just want to sleep with. That's all the relationship is based on, and usually just a one night stand.
2007-03-07 18:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true - some men are actually a one woman man. My ex hubby was, an ex bf was, and my current bf is . . .
2007-03-07 17:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋