I just can't take it any more, I feel horrible, and can't stop cryin, how do I make it go away, or a least make it feel better
2007-03-07 09:40:58 · 32 answers · asked by BeckaM09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my heart is made of titanium cant be broken
2007-03-07 09:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think a broken heart ever heals. It may be stitched back together but the scars are always there. I was struggling with the same situation I once loved a guy but he broke my heart. I still love him but I guess it has started to go down because I am feeling a little better. My advice is just give it some time and don't forget to spend a lot of time with your friends, they are always there to help you and I hope you feel better soon.
2007-03-07 09:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This worked for me:
1. Find support in friends/family
2. Allow yourself to grieve. You need the time to cry and let it out.
3. Avoid contact with the other person
4. Get feelings out with a therapist. They help you make sense of the situation.
5. Get books on this situation to find acceptance.
6. Do things to get distracted (go out, shop, etc)
7. Figure out what YOU NEEDED and not what the other person didn't or did provide.
8. Rediscover yourself. We tend to lose ourselves in a relationship. This helped me the most. I forgot about all the things I didn't get a chance to do when I was tied down in a relationship.
9. Reinvention. Create the new you. Be the person you want everyone to see. If you don't feel good on the inside, you can at least make yourself look good on the outside.
2007-03-07 09:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through a really hard time right now. I know. Everyone has had their heart broken at least once if they are honest. But I don't know of any thing but time. Just try to keep busy. What ever you like to do, I found out keeping busy with activities helps. Also you get out there and get around so you can meet others.
2007-03-07 09:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no quick cure. Surround yourself with happy things and just try not to think about it. Talk to your friends.
The only thing that can mend a broken heart is time.
Though a bit of chocolate always takes away the pain.
2007-03-07 09:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by All I can be is me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to heal but now you know there are better guys out there for you,i guess he wasn't "the one" the only way for it to heal is for you to have confidence in yourself,im going through the same thing. i know you know you can do it but your too scared at this point. It can't heal but you can batch up the bruise.
I have many too So good luck and im sure your a beautiful girl and you'll find the right one maybe tomorrow maybe a month from now or maybe even a year but he's out there and he's waiting for someone just....like...you.
2007-03-07 09:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to heal a broken heart. It all takes time. You just have to keep yourself busy. Talk to friends, go shopping, (buying something new helps). Cry and time will heal your heart.
2007-03-07 09:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a broken heart just does not go away. there will always be something that will bring back that broken heart. what you can do is to try and keep your mind off that person. try talking to another dude or going out with your friends. otherwise you just have to let it run its course, it will get easier day by day, untill you are not thinking about that person anymore.
2007-03-07 09:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dance Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends, ice cream, and a good horror flick. Talk it out. Broken hearts take time to heal depending on how strong the attchment was.
2007-03-07 09:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kailee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll a broken heart can heal faster by letting go of your pain...everytime you start to think about that hurtful thing just try to find something that will amuse you for the moment. its not that easy to heal a broken heart...no matter how you want to hold it in that pain iz still their. to heal it faster you have to replace it with love again so it can heal....
2007-03-07 09:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by precious_dyme15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not a fast fix. Try to force the thoughts out of your mind when your dwelling on them. Know that you can have better and the your wasting your time feeling horrible and crying...because those tears change nothing. That is one thing you have to realize.
It's been over a year since me and my bf broke up...and I'm still not over it, still love him, and I still cry occasionally so I guess I'm not the person to give advice ha ha.
2007-03-07 09:47:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋