Okay well iv been friends with my best friend for about 10 years. We used to do every thing together and he was also my boyfriends best friend. Was impossible to see eachother for about 3 months and he didnt return any of my calls or messages. Today i found out he has a new girlfriend and that they are gettin married... WE ARE ONLY 20 and he has only know her for 3 months. I sent him a message askin if it was true and he said that yes it was true. I got really upset for him not telling me and getting engaged without her even meeting the people he has grown up with but said that i was happy for him but i just reall think he does not know her enough to marry her just yet. He then went off about how im such an unsupportive ***** and that im just a jelouse cow and i should get over myself... ( HE NEVER EVER SPOKE B4) so i sent him a message back saying Get lost and i cant believe what he just said to me. The girl then sent a msg tellin me to **** off and callin me a *****??? what shud i do
2007-03-07 09:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by Keisha C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay well iv been friends with my best friend for about 10 years. We used to do every thing together and he was also my boyfriends best friend. Was impossible to see eachother for about 3 months and he didnt return any of my calls or messages. Today i found out he has a new girlfriend and that they are gettin married... WE ARE ONLY 20 and he has only know her for 3 months. I sent him a message askin if it was true and he said that yes it was true. I got really upset for him not telling me and getting engaged without her even meeting the people he has grown up with but said that i was happy for him but i just reall think he does not know her enough to marry her just yet. He then went off about how im such an unsupportive ***** and that im just a jelouse cow and i should get over myself... ( HE NEVER EVER SPOKE B4) so i sent him a message back saying Get lost and i cant believe what he just said to me. The girl then sent a msg tellin me to F off and callin me a WHRE??? what shud i do
2007-03-07 09:45:13 · update #1
PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP ON YOUR FRIEND. IF YOU HAVE BEEN FRIENDS THAT LONG, DON'T THROW IT AWAY. IT SEEMS HIS GIRLFRIEND MAY BE JEALOUS OF HIS OLD FRIENDS AND PROBABLY INSECURE ABOUT HOW HE WILL TREAT HER IF U ARE AROUND. TRY SEEING YOUR FRIEND IF POSSIBLE AND LET HIM KNOW YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM NO MATTER WHAT. I AGREE 20 IS TO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED, BUT HE SEEMS TO HAVE MADE UP HIS MIND. TELL HIM YOU WILL SUPPORT HIS DECISION NO MATTER WHAT AND THAT YOU WISH HIM ALL THE BEST, THEN IF THINGS WORK OUT IN HIS MARRIAGE [ I DON'T SEE THAT HAPPENING] YOUR FRIENDSHIP WILL STILL BE INTACT, BUT IF IT DOESN'T THEN HE WILL HAVE A SUPPORT SYSTEM TO FALL BACK ON. ONE THING YOU SHOULD NEVER DO IS TO BADMOUTH HIS FUTURE WIFE. JUST BE THERE FOR HIM IN THE GOOD TIMES AND THE BAD TIMES. AFTER ALL ISN'T THAT WHAT TRUE FRIENDS DO? IF IN THE END HE DOESN'T REALIZE WHAT A TRUE FRIEND HE HAS IN YOU THEN IT WILL BE HIS LOSS.
2007-03-15 07:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by NINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like i always say girlfriends and boyfriends are a dime a dozen but friends are forever. maybe ths guy really isnt your friend if hes treating you like this. or maybe hes just hurt at the fact that one of his best friends cant see that hes happy to be with someone. also i think the girlfriend is just being over protective. she might even be jelous at the fact that he has a girl as a best friend. just try to sortthings out and if he's still acting like a bum then get new friends cause you deserve better
2007-03-09 09:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than Likely his Girlfriend is jealous of you and making Life hard for him. Shes probably always throwing your name up to him and if they have any problems she is convincing him that it is somehow your fault. The best thing you can do is Move on with your Life and leave those two out of it. Just Completely Ignore them both.
2007-03-15 09:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe this is a time for space for all of you.maybe he wasnt sure he was goin to like your guys opinion on the plans he just made for his life, and just wanted to be with her.some people can only have one person in their life and maybe thats the way he is.apologize for the confusion and just let him know if he needs friends he knows where he can find them!friends can not be there to choose a friends life they can only be there to pick it back up for them!good luck!
2007-03-15 16:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would till he 2 get over himself and his so called wift to get a lift and call her a ***** back
2007-03-15 16:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by emo girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he being a jerk and she made him that way because when he was with u he was not like that.
2007-03-14 23:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by chelse d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her a@@!
2007-03-15 16:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by MAMACITA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋