My Gf is pregnant and due to the lies and betraying i have gone through with her i cannot accept her as wife.?

Question

She has lied to me about her past, her past include having sex with guys, having oral sex with guys she met randomly at parties and a two year relationship with her ex.

She told me all that after she become pregnant, i cannot accept her now, she lied to me on one of most important factors of life, she also kissed a guy while she was drunk, while she was daing me. I have completely lost any faith on her, we fight every day, i know its bad for kid but i am also going through worst time of my life, life seems worthless to me.

Sometime i tell her i would not accept the kid and walk away she threathened me of taking me to court and sueing me for child support. i do love her but know for sure i cannot accept her as my wife, not even for the sake of kid.

I dont wanna be jerk also, i feel like dyeing, life is so bad, what should i do, i tried to forgive her, but cant i tried to run away from her but cant, there seems no option, please suggest me what should i do, will i be happpy ever

Answer 1

dude that sounds horrible and if she was just telling u this stuff now for the first time and never said anything bout any of those things to u before its not a lie and maybe if u had asked her she would have told and a just a kiss to another guy while drunk aint that bad she could have done worse and had sex but she didnt and its ur kid dont walk out like that and the random sex at parties was in the past before u, it shouldnt bother u that was in the past u got to look at the present and into the future i mean ur having a kid with her and its urs not someone elses u should accept her as a wife

Answer 2

Your brother is one heck of a guy! that isn't a mistake she made it sounds greater like a habit that she's have been given. toddler or no toddler your brother does not could desire to stay along with her to guard his toddler (if it somewhat is his). She in all probability will never supply up cheating. He desires to give up snoozing with this lady earlier she supplies him something as properly according to risk a toddler.